How do you tell if a guy really likes you, or if hes just playing you?

Question

Theres this guy who's always flirting with me, and iv pretty much fallen for him. But hes the type of guy who COULD also be flirting with other girls too.

How can i figure it out!?

Answer 1

I've been in this situation also and I've learned that if he starts to ask u personal question  like what do you like to do for fun or your family etc. he is @ least interested a little. also flirt back to see if he really means what he says.

Answer 2

actions speaks louder than words.he says no but his actions can only tell you the truth.but next time you ask him better have one evidence with you to prove that you were right.

Answer 3

you wont know all you can do is trust and hope he dosent break your heart

Answer 4

There are way to many signs to just have one clear one because guys show how they feel in many different ways...

*How to tell if he likes you

(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys

These are tough to crack sometimes...

*He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.

You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it

* He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...

(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)

*He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

*He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.

*He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.

You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.

*He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.

*He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.

Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).

DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.

(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!

*He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.

It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

*His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.

*His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

*His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...

(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)

When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

*He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

*His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.

*He tells you that you smell nice...

(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

*He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.

If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.

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*Much Love* ~God Bless~

Answer 5

GOOD QUESTION.

im having this problem right now.

but i'd say that you need to develop a friendcship and a trust with this person.