How do you tell your mom you MIGHT be pregnant?

Question

I'm 16 years old, [17 in less then a month]

My bf is 20.

He lives with me and my mom.

I'm having prengnacy symptoms horribly.

i'm letting her know when I get them, but not saying "i might be prengnat"

I tell her when I don't feel good, ect ect,

she's a RN, she's been deliverin babys for YEARS. but She's not catching on......

what do you think would be with best way to tell her?

I'v taken 2 test, both neg, i'm a week late.

Answer 1

Please do not tell her unless you get a positive test result. There will be major changes in your house with a pregnancy scare that isn't real

Answer 2

Well, I don't think i'd really say anything unless you knew for sure if you were pregnant. I think I would get a doc's app. if your still late in a few days to get some blood work done and check your hcg and see if pregnancy is picked up there.  

Answer 3

just simply say, Mum i have something important to tell you, I think im pregnant... There is no easy way to tell your mum that you might be pregnant at that age. i was 17 when i found out i was pregnant it broke my heart to tell my mum... Also once u tell her, let her be alone so it can sink in... But you never know, she might be extremly excited about it... Just tell her that you're unsure and that you're late and the tests come back negative but you still think your preggers...

Good luck

Answer 4

you are stressing and that can actually push back your period. Try to calm down relax and you will be fine.  

Answer 5

Telling your mother seems like the scariest thing in the world, but from my personal experience, you have to let her know. when i told my mother, my sister was there with me for support. she yelled and was obviously disappointed, but that was in december. now, she's getting used to the idea of being a grandmother. the bottom line is that she is your mother at the end of the day and you just have to keep the communication lines open. your relationship with her will probably be strained for a while, but it will get better.

Answer 6

I would wait until you know for sure one way or another. Its best to not worry your mom (or get her hopes up). You might want to go to the doctor and get a blood test. False negatives are pretty common and it would be a good idea if your periods are pretty regular.

Answer 7

Keep your mouth shut until you know for sure.

If you aren't pregnant be sure to use condoms and get on birth control.  

Answer 8

Why would you want to tell your mom if you don't even know for sure..

Answer 9

"Mom, you f***ed up and let me overage boyfriend live with us. That was irresponsible. I don't know what you thought would happen, but You should know that Im 16 and I may be pregnant. Can you buy me and my loser boyfriend a test please."