How do you think I should go about this?

Question

Okay so my husband all of a sudden after he happen to go out and party one night with his brother decides he wants to be single. Of course I am mad, pissed, hurt, kinda glad, confused and whatever. But I don't just wanna give up on my marriage, we have two kids together and I do love him. Tomorrow me and him and his brother are going to go out to the club and go dancing and drinking my idea(that is his idea of fun, so that what I am gonna do) But how should I act towards him, i don't want to be pushy cause he does tell me he doesn't want to be with me but he has told me he loves me. Should i show him affection!

No cocky answers please.

Answer 1

Is his brother married?  I think he saw his brother having some fun and thought to himself that he wanted that life.

Go with him and do your best to have fun yourself.  See what he is having fun doing.  Try to do it with him and show him that married doesn't mean no fun.

Answer 2

You have the right idea here.  Especially since the two of you have children together, you should do everything in your power to save your marriage.  I think that you can rebuild your relationship by attempting to spend more time together doing activities you both enjoy.