How do you think? My ex only play games here with me?

Question

1. Ex boyfriend stop talking to me after 4 months serious dating; he didn't give me a reason.

2. I didn't bother to call him for closure. I let it go but it hurt me very much.

3. Then he always IM me once a week say Hi very late night.

4. Out of blue, he called me April when he was in Europe and saying he was sorry and he should treat me better and he wanted to have a relationship with me again. He said he will call me once he come back to the US.

5. Then nothing happened, he didn't call me at all since he back home for month. I thought he must be drunk to say that.

6. Last month, he went Europe and he was trying to call me again and IM. I could not trust him anymore. We live very close, WTF he have to call me that far!!!

7. Then once he came back to the home. He wanted come over to my house 9pm for movies. I think he wanted only s*x. I let him come and order the pizza for us, I wanted figure out something.

8. I emailed him saying I was so afraid of getting close to him with so much ups and downs and drama.

9. He was trying to call me after that and what should I do? Sadly I still have some feeling for him but really don't wan to be hurt anymore.

10. I ignored his calls, he texted " Do you hate me?" What should I do?

Answer 1

easy.  more on.  forget about him.

Answer 2

Let him go, 2nd chances aren't good unless they really show you they want you.

He isn't acting like he wants you that much, just using you.

Sorry

Answer 3

You have posted this same exact thing every week for 4 months

Quit obsessing over this guy and find one that WANTS you!

Answer 4

He really said, "Do you hate me?" Is he 10 years old?

This is a no-brainer. He walked out on you, probably for another girl, and didn't even give you the decency to end things properly. It didn'twork out with her, so he's coming back for you. Don't let him!  

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Answer 6

let it go. especially if he cant commit to what hes feeling either. its not nice to play with someones feelings, and thats what hes doing to you. even though its hard, you should ignore him. itll get easier, trust me. i went through the same thing. my ex left me after a year for another girl, and then he started to text me and IM me and email me telling me he missed me and what a mistake it was blah blah blah..and we hung out a couple times. we decided nothing would happen out of it, and we never got back together. thats what you need to do. this guy does NOT give you what you deserve. let him go for good; youll be fine. :)

Answer 7

move on with your life

Answer 8

Tell him to go away.You don't need his grief. He sounds bored . and when he isn't traveling he wants to talk or be friends. Fine someone new.

Answer 9

what do YOU want to do?

Answer 10

definitely ignore him.

Answer 11

Hes making you his rebound or cushion chick...When something doesnt work out with a woman he want something to fall back on....Dont fall for that c**p

Answer 12

Quit wasting our time.

Answer 13

I think he knows that you still care about him and he takes advantage of you because of it and plays with your head.  It's a fun game to him.  You shouldn't give him that satisfaction.

Answer 14

tell him you have moved on and find yourself a good man  

Answer 15

Think about this, your ex is your ex for a reason. Tell him to leave you alone, you have moved on, and you want to stay happy. He is only bringing drama and negativity into your life and that isn't something that anyone needs girl! Explain to him that he was a jerk, still is, and will always be and you do not want him in your life. You deserve better than this. All he is doing is playing games and making you think things that are lies. Take care!

Answer 16

I SAY FORGET ABOUT HIM AND MOVE ON TO SOMEONE BETTER!! WE ALL HAVE OUR PERFECT MATCH SOMEWHERE FIND YOURS AND TELL HIM TO FIND HIS. TELL HIM THAT YOUR OVER HIM AND TELL HIM TO GET A LIFE SOMEWHERE ELSE BUT IN YOURS!!

Answer 17

I think you are being played and allowing yourself to be played...move on....or put up and shut up kind of thing.....stop being a fool and find a man who likes you and wants you.

Answer 18

You should take a break and sort things out...

Answer 19

You seem to have an answer: you don't want to get hurt. That's your principle. You want someone who appreciates and cherishes you. Is he making you happy or confusing you? I know it is hard after 4 months, but sounds like this guy need to grow up and stop messing around. I think it is good idea to keep him away.

Answer 20

Move on.  He is a playa... he just wants to play games with you.

Answer 21

You should realize that you were in an immature and un-needed relationship. Ones like that will give you nothing but heartache. Trust me. Just tell him nicely that you're moving on and that he should do the same.