How do you think why staying in touch is not helpful for him?

Question

I fell for a guy and told him about it. He said that he didn’t love me back and would never love and also blamed me that I basically loved nobody but myself while saying I loved him. Asked to think what I’ve done what was truly motivated by love, meaning that it just had a benefit for the other person. After it I haven’t seen him for several weeks until I left. I spent a year in his country and had to leave. I sent him last message asking for staying in touch. He answered the following: “I won’t stay in touch. It’s not helpful for either one of us. So let’s finish it like this. I wish you all the best. May God bless you in all that you’re doing and may guide you on His good ways. Bye.” I know why the contact is not helpful for me.

But how do you think why staying in touch is not helpful for him?

Answer 1

Maybe he doesn't want to hurt you.  Maybe he feels that if you stay in touch and he stays in touch your feelings for him will only grow and his will stay the same.  Which in the long run would only hurt you more.  hope I have helped.

Answer 2

It could be that he feels that to stay in touch with someone who feels more than he does, could lead to problems further down the line.

Even though he has told you he is not interested in you romantically, you want to stay in touch. Therefore, it may be that in time, you will once again try to be romantic towards him.

He may feel it best for his peace of mind to move on with a clean break.

Or he may have some other reason.

You can never really know, and as he has politely, but firmly, brought an end to your hopes of romance with him, you could do worse than regard this time as a bitter sweet memory, and move on with your own life.

Best wishes :-)

Answer 3

He is married?