How do you treat people who are friendly in front of you and talk rubbish about you behind your backs

Question

How do you treat people who are friendly in front of you and talk rubbish about you behind your backs

Answer 1

I guess it really depends on who the person is and how it will affect others. Ex. How it would affect your relationship with your husband if you said something to his mother. There are ppl sometimes who aren't even worth bothering with. Rubbish is their way of life and if it isn't harmful let it go.

Answer 2

person who is rubbish to u is likely to b mentally disturbed as he/she found u cruising much faster then him/her in life.u shd get rid of him/her in a gradual manner.Dont give him/her ur secrets n just pass on fake infos. abt u that r goin to do this or that but in actual do the right thing.take advantage of his friendly face as a parasite n keep it mind that he/she couldnt get ur mode of action at any cost

look hitler n nepolean bonapart always said that

"if u r of stelthy nature no one can defeat u" n "a Sucessful man has no need to xplain while a defeated man has nothing to xplain"

keep ur full flash command on time n do in ur own fashion everyhting will b alright

Answer 3

You don't treat them like anything

you dump them.

Answer 4

See my friend, it is the reality of life that one day you will must unmask someone. More bigger fact is, we r very much insecure from ourselves and not from others. So there is no big deal to involve in what others are saying behind you. In case of friend, if this is so, you can try to rectify the actions for which he is saying so. Do better in every respect and aspect from him and do just opposite as he does. In the known circle he will be proved wrong and silly. So keep patience and do better. If someone is friendly in front of you please continue it. Friendship can not be shown but tested in real crisis.      

Answer 5

Ignore them.  If it gets bad or interferes with your reputation, confront the person.  There is only so much you can do.  Other people will realize what this person is doing because he/she is probably doing it to them as well.  

Answer 6

he is not friend because friend is a all time with u this is called gud friendship  

Answer 7

i would say dat one should confront such people..

one should go and ask what exactly their problem is..may b u think dat they r bitching about u but may b they r actually not...

it is possible that d source from where u r gettin to know stuff is not to b trusted...

so talk to them n let them explain their side of the story as well..

and after dat if u feel they r wrong, just dont hav any contact with them..let them go to h**l

Answer 8

anu .mostly people does who r cowards ............live 'em they aint have guds(courage) ta tok front..................ha?

Answer 9

u tell em wat u no

Answer 10

U should break - up with such type of people...u should give last warning but u should not take revenge.....

Answer 11

The person who is tell rubbish should be given one more chance by telling that I was hurt by that. If he does not stop saying, that leave him, but it is recommended that never take revenge.

Answer 12

Turn the other cheek. Let them deal with their own insecurities and don't hang out with them too much. Pray for them too. Don't hate.