How do you treat someone that you KNOW is being fake to you?

Question

I've always known that a certain group of females was being fake to me and tries to use me mainly for my car sometimes, but recently my thoughts turned out to be the truth.

One girl in particular talks bad about me, but when she wants something, she's all in my face. Alot of the time I don't know how to react because I'm not a fake person but I don't want to get into it with her and turn them from being mean behind my back to verbally abusing me. Usually I just humor her and act like everything's cool, but it makes me SO mad that she's being that fake and trying to use me like that.

Answer 1

so your basically going to be treated like trash and be friends with fake people come on now who is being fake now i mean when someone is mean to me and don't want to be there friends at all so i don't and seriously if you want to be friends with people who are mean and use you then go ahead but i think that you should find real friends instead.

Answer 2

Drop them.  When someone is being that blatantly fake to you - why keep them around?  Clearly you're unhappy - clearly they don't appreciate you the way they should.  So drop them.  In a sophisticated manner, though - keep the upper level - don't drop to their level.  Either that or make them start paying for gas - if you think they're using you for you car.

Answer 3

You need to not assiociate with people who are like that!  Don't make yourself available to them. Really try to make lots of new friends who are nice and sincere and hang out with them. Become too busy to hang out with them.