How do you truly know when people love you? Do they spy on you to make sure you are okay?

Question

Ah, so it will be okay to spy on my son when he's a teenager? Things sure have changed since 9/11, I think. Privacy is no longer fact.

Answer 1

no spying is not a form of love-- it's stalking. When someone really loves you, they are there to listen to you and have fun with. A person who smiles and seeks your attention is a good indication they like you, which is a beginning for love.

Answer 2

yeah it does alot of the time

all you have to watch out for is that you don't start to resent them :/

It can be hard but you have to see where they're coming from wouldn't you like to protect them aswell?