How does a woman feel if you refuse her offer to sleep with her?

Question

I am 31, single, Indian, in Australia for last 3 years. I live in a shared accommodation. A 25-year old girl lives in the next room. And one married couple was living in the third larger room. But they moved around a week ago. Now only me and this girl are there in the house. She indicated sometimes that she wants to involve with me sexually by coming to my room at night in revealing dress on this pretext or that. But I haven't shown any sexual interest. How she might be feeling?

Answer 1

Homosexual.

Answer 2

Is not your duty to have s*x with her. Only stupid people thinks that is a man duty to have s*x with any woman who desires him. Is your choice to do it or no.

Answer 3

rejected, be upfront with her & let her know her advances are unwarrented & unwelcome, if thats how you feel. You could tell her its your culture/religious upbringing, that has you chaste, it you want to soften the rejection. but who cares sounds like a girl like that can move on pretty quick.

Answer 4

If you are single and she is attractive to you I don't see why you are holding out - and neither will she. In fact she will get very p**sed off with you if you don't do something about this soon e.g.

1/ Give her the old wriggly-wriggly

2/ Explain that you are married/a eunuch/have an STD

3/ Try to explain the concept of asexuality to her.

4/ Start turning up in her room at night prancing around in her nightie and humming Its Raining Men.

5/ Tell her you have a boob-phobia.

Sorry dude I am all out of ideas on this one...

Answer 5

They would feel bad, because society assumes that all men want s*x..and she might be feeling that something is wrong with her or that she might be ugly.  If a woman publicly told that a man turned her down for s*x, it will be humiliating because the assumption is that men will take it.....unless the woman is hideously ugly.

The truth is though that there are some men that don't take up a sexual offer regardless of how pretty a woman is.   I know some sexually assertive beautiful women, who were turned down for s*x.  The men that turned them down were either g*y, were involved in a serious relationship and didn't want to cheat, or wanted to wait until marriage.

I think you need to make it clear why you don't want any s*x.  Just tell her that it has nothing to do with her, and you're just not interested in casual s*x.  Since you're Indian, you can use the old-fashioned "It's not in our culture to have s*x before marriage" excuse.

She probably is used to men taking up her sexual offers or throwing themselves at her, so she's feeling bad that why you're not showing any interest in her.

Answer 6

I dunno - I've never turned down a woman's offer for s*x.

Answer 7

feeling rejected

Hi Peeps!

Answer 8

horny?