How does girls feels before marriage if she is not marrying the person she loves?

Question

what does she thinks of her future life? what are the feelings going through her mind? why does she makes this big compromise to not marry the person whom she loves?

Answer 1

At different stages in life some marry to help raise the children if their is some already. Love doesn't have to be involved at this stage just compatibility and same child rearing expectations. Sometimes Love developes later and sometimes it doesn't. For a woman raising a child  I put my own future plans on hold because when I became a mother this was my future until my child is through with school and own his own. My life and future dreams will began after my son has been taken care of because preparing him for what he will be facing on his own was my duty and very proud to do it as his mother. Sometimes Love developes at different ages with different people and you have to sometimes just sit back and let them live their own life no matter if they are wrong or right. This is called life experiences and you will either learn and grow from them are keep repeating the bad choices   over and over again, of course you can't change anyone but yourself and the greatest is you must LOVE yourself before anyone else can LOVE you.  

Answer 2

what i would only marry the person i truly love