How does it feel to lose your virginity?

Question

I've been told it feels like a broomstick is being put inside you. Is that true? Anything you can tell me about what it's like is appreciated.

Thanks so much.

Answer 1

my first time didnt hurt at all because I was ready for it. I didnt bleed either. you get alittle bit of a burning sensation the first time he sticks it in but then it goes away in a second.

Answer 2

Honestly, it didn't hurt for me. Only thing that hurts is when you go to have s*x and you're not wet enough. Lube will take care of that. If you can I'd say pop your hymen yourself so it doesn't hurt as bad and you don't bleed, but not everyone bleeds, I didn't. Good luck! And use protection!

Answer 3

Feels like complete h**l. I didn't even think about the emotional side like, "oh my god, I'm not a virgin" because I was in so much pain. I cried a little. It's different for everyone but for most women it hurts very much. There is a little piece of skin called the hymen that tears when something large is entered into the v****a. Such as...a p***s. So, basically it feels like someone tearing your skin apart. Which is what is happening.

Sorry, I really wish I could tell you it feels good the first time you have s*x. But it doesn't. After about the 4th time for me, it started to feel good. I also bled a lot the first time. And a little less on the second time, third time, etc. I stopped bleeding the 5th time.

It's all worth it as long as you do it with someone you love and care about.

Answer 4

Just make sure you are well lubed the first time. And most of all he should be very gentle and caring with you, don't rush the moment.

If you are under 18 you should not even be asking this question.  Everyone is different.

Answer 5

It hurts less if you relax...use protection

Answer 6

Well. It hurts. I wouldn't necessarily say a broomstick, it just hurts. Just make sure the person you are with is gentle and you trust him and you should be fine. It will be over in a couple of minutes and then the times after like that are like a cool breeze.  

Answer 7

who would say such a thing...lol...it does hurt but i've never had a broomstick stuck in me so idk

Answer 8

no

dont worry it feels great and it feel's a bit better than mastabation so mastabate and it kinda feel's like that x

Answer 9

first of all it's going to hurt.  you want to make sure your wet cause it will hurt less.  it's not going to be pleasurable the first time.  i didn't get my first o****m till after 6 month and even then it was really hard to get one.  i've had s*x for the past 8 years and i still have to tell my boyfriend to enter slowly.  it's going to fill like your forcing something really large that's not going to fit.  it's uncomfortable and i recommend that the person your doing it with is considerate of your feelings cause it will so hurt.

Answer 10

Hurt like h**l during it. make sure youre very very wet. this is very important. use protection anyone can get an std even if he says hes a virgin. and get on some birthcontrol. i got pregnant at fifteen using condoms and spermicide! dont think your the only one it wont happen to!

Answer 11

I've never been into the S&M thing.  So I don't know about the broomstick simile.  

I was 18.   And it was a bit painful for me.  I didn't bleed much.  It didn't start felling amazing until like the tenth time.  But we didn't rush it.  You just have to make sure he understands, that he needs to take it slow.  

But the pain was secondary to sharing this emotional experience with my boyfriend at the time.  Who's now my husband and the love of my life.

So just be sure that YOU'RE absolutely ready to do this.  Your virginity is something you can never get back.  And when you do it, make him wrap up.  And that you're already on the pill or some other form of contraceptive.  The last thing you want is to get pregnant or worse your first time.

Answer 12

it hurts the first time...you gotta stretch it out a little lol...you might bleed so hopefully the guy isnt shocked by that. but the 2nd or 3rd time will be great...you may not enjoy it the first time, especially if the guy doesnt know what hes doing haha..just use protection! have fun ;-]

Answer 13

no, it kinds feels like a bowel movement.  There will be some pressure/pain and possibly some bleeding.  It will be somewhat easier if you use some lube (water based)...it should make it more bearable.  It will also be better if you have a heavy make out session with lost of playing around to get you juices flowing.   another alternative is to take it up the backside!