Cast of characters:
My brother - 36 yr old single dad (2x divroced) 3 kids 1 grandkid
Her - Unhappily married next door neighbor - 2 kids
Him - Her completely unaware husband
Him - her "male friend" from her home state (all parties are military) whom she misses, wants to be the something s**y for his bday and he has been to visit while husband was gone on deployment.
He met this woman 1 1/2 years ago through his daughter. He has since divorced wife #2, and has taken up with her. In the process of all this he has withdrawn and alienated himself from friends and most family. I ran into a long time friend of 10+ years the other day and she was telling me how he is not allowed to talk her they are getting married. That gf actually called the long time friend and told her that he wanted nothing to do with her and not to call again. If he was to contact her the wedding and relationship are done. She's still married to my knowledge. We have tried to talk to my brother but he will not listen and has given up all for her. We are worried that she will get bored and drop him for her next conquest eventually and he'll be devasted. Yes, he is a grown man....and he made this choice but sitting by and watching is hurting us more than he'll ever know. Some of us have thought about telling her husband........but we don't want really want to cause problems for us as a family if that makes sense. What can we do? Is there ANYTHING? Right now he's not talking to any of us.........except mom and she refuses to get involved. I say it won't work.........he's gonna get hurt - my gut tells me so.
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