How exactly do women get pregnant on purpose?

Question

I've heard this saying a lot, especially in high school and college settings. The guy (sometimes random girls) will say "Oh she got pregnant to trap me/him in the relationship."

Can someone please tell me how a woman does this? Last time I checked unless a woman decides to artificially inseminate herself, conceiving a child takes is a two person act A woman can't just crawl on top of herself and get pregnant. Does she take scissors and cut a hole in the condom beforehand and then seal it back up without the guy knowing?

Could this perhaps be an attempt to degrade a woman and her character? Rather clever don't you think, making a pregnancy look like the woman's fault instead of the fault of TWO consenting adults?

Answer 1

they say to the guy they're using the pill but they dont

Answer 2

Well sometimes the guy involved thinks that they are having safe s*x, when in fact she purposely puts holes in the condom, or she tells him she is on the pull even though she isn't. Or sometimes girls are on the pill, but they purposely forget to take it once in a while, decreasing the effectiveness. Sure, there are some instances where it could like a lot like the girl has done this when she really hasn't. And even if the girl does do this, it is no excuse for the guy to leave her.

But there are cases where this happens. I should know, my brother was with a girl when they were both 18. She told him she was on the pill, when really she wasn't. Its now 7 years later, they have a son, we realised that all she ever wanted was a baby of her own when she dumped my brother and took the child a few months after he was born. SOme girls just see it as a way to have a child and dont think abotu the consequences and life long heartbreak it causes for the guy when she has a child without thinking and decides not to let the father see the child. Very selfish thing to do.

Answer 3

Well said! Both men and women know that when they have s*x there's always a chance of getting pregnant, even if they use birth control. I think both people have to take responsibility for their actions, and sexual relationships should be based on trust and commitment.

If you consent to s*x, you consent to raising a child for 18 years. And that goes for both genders.

Answer 4

Pin hole in the condom

Telling the guy she IS on the pill, when she isn't...

Yes, it takes two consenting adults, but if a young woman wants to get pregnant, she will.

Answer 5

I think this reference generally describes a situation when a female rigorously encourages the male to engage in unprotected coitus wherein the male is either unfamiliar with the pull-out method of contraception or simply cannot help but ejaculate inside the vaginal vault.

This inherent behaviour on the part of the female would be regarded as a deliberate attempt to become pregnant as opposed to using methods to reduce the likelihood of conception.

In a monogamous relationship, if I trusted my partner and felt that she was using oral contraceptives as directed, I would not feel the need to use a condom during coitus.  The oral contraceptive is extremely effective in reducing the likelihood of conception.  Irrespective of how many methods are employed in reducing the risk of pregnancy, engaging in coitus inherently places both parties in equal risk of conceiving.  Assigning blame for a failure of a contraceptive device to function properly serves no rational purpose.

NB:  This is all highly theoretical, since as we all know, women are "INCAPABLE OF LYING," simply are beyond the capacity to deceive.  No woman has ever been dishonest with a man, it simply can't be so.

Answer 6

Some women could lie saying they are on the pill or they could keep the condom and hide it until she can use it

Answer 7

Well, i've readed about it in stupid sites like encyclopedia dramatica or urban dictionary and some friends, but never happened to me, anything...

But from what they say, is that the "C-ck Trappers -=o" fool males so that they get pregnant and men will be forced to marry, or get sued, etc.

According to there, what they do is tell you that the condom is not necesary because they have been taking pills.

Or say this and have unprotected s*x OR say this and encourage the male into using a sabotaged condom.

A guy also said that they even get away with the used condoms and inseminate themselves.

Of course, they wouldn't tell the guy they where pregnant until it's too late.

If i heard this in the news, i would be freaked out but not weirded out, since there are women that are so desperate and selfish and with the laws protecting them, that no it's not that weird.

I don't fin this to degrade women, since women is not an individual, it may degrade THOSE women but not them all.

I also blame the guys for not being more careful, really s*x should be for marriage. Poor guys tho, injustice.

Yes it should be 2 consenting adults, but this is fooling an manipulating helpless, fooled people.

You can't just say "it's real burn women" or "so false, bad men" because you have no proof and there are millions of men and women.

This really should be considered in trials, just because you support women equality it doesn't mean that some women can't like just some men do.

What a mess lol.

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Some women. Not women.

Answer 8

This q is a lot of nonsense. You klnow darn well what is meant when a girl pretends she's using protection but doesnt to purposely get pregnant.

You need to pick something real..actual...to harp on about men hatefully, because this is just c**p.

Answer 9

There are a million ways a girl can manipulate the situation to get pregnant.  Yes, men most certainly do have to remember that having s*x, even if the woman is on the pill, can fertilize an ovum.  s*x = reproduction, biologically.   But, trust is important and can be screwed with.  My roommate in college, a "nice Christian old fashioned girl" as she described herself, wasn't pregnant but told her boyfriend that she was and started merrily planning her "nice Christian old fashioned" wedding.  I was shocked and told the guy.  He sent her highly conservative "nice Christian old fashioned" parents a 25 gallon glass jar of dill pickles with a big fancy ribbon and bow and card congratulating them on their daughter's pregnancy and hoped them best in figuring out which guy was the father.  She hadn't told THEM she was pregnant or had not remained "pure and virginal" before marriage. They yanked her butt out of school in a gush of great embarrassment.  That was long ago.  I named my daughter after him.  : )

Answer 10

Don't knock it; I've heard or women doing exactly that; some want to marry the guy so bad they will take those measures. My cousin went off her birth control on purpose to get pregnant cause she thought if she didn't get pregnant the guy would never marry her. In her case he married her; others were not so lucky. I'm a woman and I know we do just fine on our own to degrade our own characters without any outside help. It's a very clever deduction to say such a thing about some women.

Answer 11

Women lie to men all the time, that they are on the 'pill'. When pregnant, she gets free child support.

Its like winning the lottery.

Answer 12

It's not the mechanics of this issue that concern me, it's the underlying reason(s) WHY a woman would choose to use this manipulative ploy.  

Surely they do not  expect a "trapped" man to live "happily ever after" with them???   That is completely delusional....