How hard is it for you?

Question

To say goodbye to someone? like your [ex] a friend ect..?

And what is your starsign?

Answer 1

It is very hard, especially ex's.. i often string them along just because i dont want to say goodbye or leave them.  But when it comes to friends or family and i will not see them again for a while, if that is what you mean it is extremely hard for me, as well.. i just dont like goodbyes!  lol

I am an Aries.

Answer 2

Its really so hard when I do so its like someone is taking away my soul I feel that I'm lost and I can't do this can't live in this life anymore I sometimes wish I could drink a lot just to forget the pain its not easy at all to leave someone u really love and care about .

I'm Pisces

Answer 3

It is very hard for me to say goodbye to someone that I love or like.  My son moved out this summer and I let him go, but I think about him and his leaving every day.  As far as someone who I can't stand like my ex, it is not hard at all.  In fact it changed me for the better; best thing I ever did for myself.  I am an Aries.

Answer 4

Sometimes hard and a bit sad, depending on the person and how close we are/were but mostly easy, if they go, they go. Goodbye!

Answer 5

almost impossible -

Cancer rising & Venus in Capricorn

Answer 6

It is very hard; I'm a Libra.

Answer 7

OMG very sad, if i never get to see them again the obliously ur gonna be sad, people on here that r saying"im would be fine" or something like that, r probally just saying that becuz they dont want people to think of them as babbies! lol, i would be very sad, and even know my sign doesnt say " hard to let go of something" im still like that!

Answer 8

Very easy. But if I was saying goodbye to my fiance it's be a different story.

Answer 9

extremely hard - Libra

Answer 10

It's been a long running joke in my family that we've always (and I'm talking, several generations) moved around like gypsies.....

By the time I was 16, I had already been to 16 different schools.....

I have had lots of practice saying goodbye for many different reasons...Though it may be difficult and heartbreaking...sometimes it is necessary to let someone go...and sometimes, I feel if the friendship/love is true, you can keep each other in the heart - besides there is always telephone, internet, and even old fashioned hand written letters! :)

In matters of the heart (boyfriend etc.,), I have much practice in this area as well,...I usually am the one doing the leaving but there has been times that I left because I felt there was no other choice....and again, sometimes it is necessary...just because we may love someone, it doesn't mean it is going to work out or be for the best for both people! I have 'cried' over one lossed love for several years, even watched him get married.....one of the hardest I've had to endure....but I still feel that it was for the best for many different reasons (for both of us) and would not want to change anything............

It can be excruciating sometimes, but the optimist in me always looks between the tears to find comfort that things will work themselves out and possibly/hopefully for the best and so I leave it in the hands of the divine.....blow a kiss into the wind and let go....

Sun/Sag

Answer 11

well i"ve had to say goodbye to my husband twice now so far so he could leave for this stupid war....Yeah it's freakin hard especially when his life is in danger everyday and I wait for his phone call everyday to make sure he's ok.  I do not find it hard to leave an ex if I am through with them though.  Once they have crossed the line then I am done and it's a relief but until that point I would have done anything for them.  Friend too for that matter.

Answer 12

5 in a scale of 10... i've done it some times... so i know how to do that... it's sad...

Answer 13

it really feels bad especially in situations which you cannot doing do anything.but life aint fair dude!!!get used to it.

my sun sign is taurus

Answer 14

I cling to things very tightly, so it's not easy for me at all. I can stand it if I know that they will still be in my life, but if it were good bye for good, I would be sulky and miserable for days. I had this happen with a best friend of mine who was studying abroad, and he left to go home to his own country...I thought I would never see him again, and I cried everyday for a week straight, but he ended up e-mailing me everyday, and came back to see me again.

Libra

Answer 15

somewhat hard for me, i get attached to all people i allow to be close to me and i trust, and its painful when i remeber the people i have had to let go =(

i am getting better at this as i get older though =D i find it gets easier, after dealing with losing people you loved from your life a lot

- cancer =)