How has having a baby changed you for the better?

Question

I'm 34 weeks pregnant and I've become very thoughful lately. I find myself pondering my life and how it's going to change completely after I give birth to my little girl. My husband is convinced I will be a great mom but of course I have doubts sometimes. I don't know what to expect. I mean, I can read all the books I want but when it comes down to it, it's all about the experience. I'm trying to go with the flow and look at it as the beginning of a journey. I have a nice home, a loving husband, and the luxury of being a stay at home mom. I have no reason to be hesitant but I guess sometimes I feel like I want to be the best and I'm not sure how to go about doing that...

So, my question is, how has your child or children changed you for the better? I realize that normally I am kind of self centered so I think having a child will really humble me and make me see outside myself.

Answer 1

Everything changes for the better! My son will be 3 soon and I just couldn't even imagine life without him. When you give birth it all comes to you nautrally it did with me anyway it's the best feeling in the world to hold your baby in your arms and to be able to care for them. My son is so loving he will hug and kiss me he's just the sweetest little thing and to feel that love he gives me back it's just soo amazing. Everything will be just fine don't worry just be the best mom you can be.

Answer 2

That is awesome and yes we all had/have our doubts.  The fact that this is a concern shows that you will be a great mom.  We are all new to this at first... even taking care of my sisters I was not really ready BUT our daughter is amazing and I am so thankful each day for that joy!  

I was not a selfish person, I did not have any great troubles in my marriage.. nothing drastic, it's the little things.  She's an inspiration.  Ana hugs are the best!  I never get tired of hearing, "mommy".  Here she is 4 and we are TTC another, she is constantly feeling my tummy saying, "There could be a baby in there."  You know she really is an amazing lil girl.  They grow up so fast and yet you get to be a part of that!  

Like the song goes, "butterfly kisses and bedtime prayers..."

it's true there is such a connection knowing that your child is learning each day, dependent on you and yet growing more and more independent.  Developing who she is and what she wants to be... she loves animals, art, playing make believe and she;s a total princess girl (dress up anytime).  

She has taught me alot and hey it's fun to have an excuse to enjoy old school cartoons.  LOL

You will see it's awesome to be a parent.  Hard work yes but so worth it.  I'm very thankful I'm able to be a stay home mom.  

Blessings :)

Answer 3

more responsible. i always make it a point that i do have to be money-wise in expenditures since i want to save some too for my baby. i have also became more aware of the things we eat and the sanitation of the house. i have also, (i think) expanded my knowledge on childcare. i maybe part of a healthcare team, but my experience in having a baby helped me lot since i have understand hat 'growing up' means.

Answer 4

i have a little girl i was 18 when i had her and im the first to admit its hard and there are days i go why did i do this but then i look at her and she brightens my day,, i realised who my realy friends were as i lost most of them because i couldnt drink and go out all the time, and i found my true mates the ones that i know will be there no matter what. its scary that when you first have a bub its all so new but after a few weeks its just natural you look back and go man i wonder what i would be doing if i wasnt here changing this bum lol.. its the best thing i ever did with my life helped me to grow up and yes i still have my bad days but hey there worth it to see her grow up :) so goodluck and believe me you will do fine if i can do it you can haha:)

Answer 5

Having my son made me realize that I wanted to become a nurse.  He made me see that even the smallest things in life are worth celebrating. He's given me a chance to play and be a kid again.

Answer 6

Firstly you are so lucky that you can be at home with this baby,you will become selfless and joyous over this wonderous child it is for the better in life. Just make sure you make time for yourself unless you are happy the thought of giving endlessly it will wear you down.Have lots of me time even it is a cup of tea at a certain time of day or go out with out the bub with a close friend once a month dinner with your husband now and then it will benefit you both more than you can imagine......12 years 4 children 26 years married

Answer 7

I don't hang out with a lot of the same people I used to hang out with. And I'm more mature then I used to be.