I'm going to sound like a horrible person here, but I'm not all that fond of kids. Most of the time they annoy me with the amount of noise they make, or their pointless questions.
I fell in love with and married a girl with an 8 year old daughter, and I thought "Ah, you can't have EVERYTHING your way--suck it up and live with it." I had seen her before, and she was always running in and out, tending to her own business...so I was under the impression that it would be that way. She'd be off doing her own thing.
No...she follows me like a puppy, always tells me she loves me, gives me kisses and hugs, asks me for permission to do things, and calls me DAD! *shudder* The way I always saw it, if my name is not on the birth certificate, then I have ZERO say in how she's raised and whatnot. My wife says to have a heart, especially since her real dad vanished after discovering life as a parents wasn't all that it cracked up to be.
So...how do I bond to a kid that isn't mine?
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