How is the best way to break it to your spanish family?

Question

I'm 17, not married, and pregnant in a spanish family.

=( how could i tell my mom, my dad, and my brothers??? /:[

I'm scared as h**l.

Answer 1

Just tell your mother first.

She'll help you decide what to do.

Answer 2

I agree with Orla, let you mother know. No matter how upset she gets she's still your mother. She can help you out with how to tell the rest of your family as well as with Doctors appointments, and underneath it all she'll probably even be excited too. :-)

Answer 3

tell the one that's easiest for u first..but dont stress urself and dont let others stress u either. of course they will b upset..what parent wouldnt but they will get over it. nobody's pefect.calm down relax and ur words will come together. once everything is out in the open u will feel like a ton of weights has been lifted off ur shoulders  ; )

Answer 4

Maybe try telling the person you trust the most in the family (like your mom or an aunt).  I know this is definately not the easiest thing to do but at least once you tell them you will not be scared and worried anymore.  It will be out in the open and you can move on.  Everything will be okay. Im sure your family loves you and wants the best for you.  The sooner you tell them the sooner you can start seeking the medical care that you and your baby need.  Your family will get over the shock of it and eventually be happy.  You just have to tell them.