How is the past affecting your current love life?

Question

How is the past affecting your current love life?

Answer 1

Well being a 53 year old single dad i can get laid anytime i can find a baby setter . But to find a woman that wants to help raise a 5 year old is next to impossible . They all raised theres and are out having fun .

Answer 2

It has never affected my physical love life; however, my emotional one. I seem to get flash backs when any current situation is similar, and then I react as I did back then, or expect the outcome to be like it. It is very hard to realize that the person now will not react the same, will not do the same, and it is difficult to make your partner understand that

Answer 3

It isn't . Despite the fact that my past was really hard and abusive and so on, it's gone. It no longer exists. I am happy, I am safe , I have great husband, great step children, great kitty cats, wonderful friends,and I love my little house. Though I don't have much I believe that I have it all  

Answer 4

It's helped it out greatly, actually.  My ex-husband was a liar among other things.  I won't tolerate what I was put through with him.  My boyfriend now is wonderful.  I am so thankful that he is in my life now.

Answer 5

hmmm... Well now I'm alot more pickier than I used to be. Not exactly looks wise but personality wise

Answer 6

I haven't had a BJ like it use to be.

Answer 7

Well from being hurt in the past really bad I have no trust in anyone at all .I have a wall that is up and it's not coming down. And I will not let anyone get close to me at all

Answer 8

It always does. You have insecurities about yourself or trust issues b/c you could have been cheated on. It is endless..sometimes you just have to put the past behind you. It's hard but it's necessary.