How is this possible?plz answer?

Question

well i no this is going 2 sound weird BUT, i am a straight girl and i definately like guys. but my best friend that i have been friends with for like 7 years i think i might be liking her (she actually hapens 2 be bi) and she has recently gotten back together with her ex-girlfriend and about a week ago we were at my comp. and she told me tath she was datingher again and i felt jealouse and angry....and the worst thing is is that im dating my best friends brother, how can a straight girl like a bi girl, im straight and i no im straight because iv never felt attracted 2 girls before...help plz?????

Answer 1

This could be the one girl you're attracted to.

Honestly , I think you guys ... need to talk.

Answer 2

confuse aren't you? i know your smart and deep in your heart you knew the right thing to do, focus and start rationalizing. it is common that when you get attached to someone and the attention given to you is undivided then suddenly this someone meet others that lessen it, jealousy comes in, but don't be cause its not healthy cause you might risk your friendship that you care for long long years, you'll end up depress and sorry

Answer 3

i think it's best to calm down, don't panic and take things slow. first things first, it's time to examine your relationship with this boy you're seeing. do you really like him? do you want to date him? if you could choose between him and your friend, which would you choose (simply a who-would-you-rather-spend-time-with sort of thing)? if you would choose him then maybe this is just a fantasy and it's time to let it go.

now, if you do all that thinking and realize hey, you actually like her and would like to be with her, it might be time to leave the boy. don't say anything to your friend while she's dating someone else (common courtesy) but if she starts feeling like the relationship is ending or if they break up, tell her about these feelings. don't be nervous, she's your friend. tell her everything and see what she says. there's no telling what she would think. just be honest.

it's okay. you can be whatever you want. there are varying degrees of sexuality, i think of it like this:

seriously homosexual--g*y but experimental--bisexual--straight but experimental-- seriously straight.

guess what? it's okay to be whatever feels right to you. so just go with your heart and try not to hurt anybody and you're golden!

:)

Answer 4

Been there, done that! Hun, I feel you!

Anyway, what you need to do is....

explore.

Plenty of STRAIGHT girls do "expirements"

Just, try something w/ this girl, and see where is goes

from there. There's nothing else you can do...