How long after miscarriage did you get pregnant ?

Question

I went today to hear the baby's heartbeat....well...I thought I was 11wks3days....and the baby measured 7wks4days...with no heartbeat...My last u/s was at 7wks2days and we saw the heartbeat...I go tomorrow for an D&E.....I haven't been able to miscarry on my own.....Needless to say I am devestated....How long after a miscarriage did any of you get pregnant with a sucessful pregnancy?

Thanks!

Answer 1

It depends on your body. What you need to do is give yourself the chance to get through this experience.  It is a loss, and it takes time.  DO not put pressure on yourself right now.

Answer 2

i had a miscarriage at 17 weeks, i had to have a d&c as well and i was devasted. i have pcos so it took my hubby and i a good 11 months of treatment to get pregnant and so i was heartbroken when i found out my baby died. but i now have a beautiful healthy 6 month old daughter. it took me another 4 months and more rounds of fertitlity drugs to get prgnant again but it was a success and i know now it was worth the wait..i love my daughter so much--there is hope, keep trying and good luck

Answer 3

I am so so sorry for your loss.

I had a similar thing happen to me last month. I went in at 9 weeks after seeing the baby's heart beat at 7 weeks and the baby had died days earlier. I had no cramping or bleeding. I had a D&C the next day to remove the fetus. They sent the baby to pathology where they discovered that she died b/c of a chromosomal abnormality and that she was a girl. I knew she was a girl, I could feel it in my bones!

My doctor told us to wait for me to have one normal period and then to start TTC again. I had the D&C on June 5th and still haven't had a period yet. So we're waiting.

This has been a really hard month for me. I feel like people expect me to be "over it" already, but I still cry all the time about my baby dying. Family and friends try to say things to cheer me up like "you'll get pregnant again" - but that doesn't replace the loss of THIS baby, ya know? Or they say "it's for the best" - but wouldn't the best be an actual baby??

I am sorry you have to go through this. I wouldn't wish a baby's death on my worst enemy. Feel free to email me if you want to talk about it. I know my friends are sick of hearing about it from me :(

Answer 4

6 months after my miscarriage I got pregnant with my oldest daughter.

She's now 3 and I have another one.

No problems with either pregnancy what's so ever.

My body, like yours rejected the first pregnancy. Doesn't mean at all that you will not be able to have a completely normal pregnancy soon to follow.

I know it's hard, There is much hope for you though, don't worry...

Answer 5

Sorry to hear that but normally its advisable to conceive after 3 months.

Women tend to be very fertile after miscarriage but it is not encourage to conceive after miscarriage because our body is still weak and need to time to regulate our hormon back to normal and hotfully the chances of miscarriage for the 2nd time will be lower.