How long after you're in a relationship do you have s*x?

Question

I'm new to this relationship stuff. I'm in my first relationship now and had my first kiss last night. I'm 18 btw, not 12 or something. I'm in NO RUSH to have s*x, I'm just wondering cause I'm curious to know how relationships work.

Answer 1

What I do, but don't really recommend it to you, is I go on a few dates, if everything is okay personality wise I have s*x with the person to check out equipment, style, and moves.  Again if everything is compatible in that area then I go into a formal relationship with the person.  For your case, wait until you really feel you trust the guy and that he is going to be completely there for what your needs and wants are regarding s*x.  Experiment with other stuff like sexual petting and playing because that will give you an idea about how ready you and he are for s*x as well as what you like and how your body works.  

Good Luck!!

Answer 2

You'll know when it is right. Just follow your instincts. It could be 2 dates or 2 months or longer. Follow your heart and you will be fine.

Answer 3

Well I'm 17 and in my first relationship also. I kinda plan  wait til marriage but if that doesn't happen then i wanna be dating him for atleast a yr and know that I'm giving my virginity 2 someone who cares 4 me (4 real).

Answer 4

When you both feel that it's right, then it will happen. Wait till you're married? Please! That's so old-fashioned. If you love each other and you're happy, nothing else matters.

Answer 5

There is no set time frame for when to have s*x. I'm 25 years old and in my first serious relationship (my boyfriend is 29). We've been together for 5 months (tomorrow actually) and have not slept together. We are taking things slow, plus I'm having problems/side effects due to taking the pill. We've both made the decision to not plan, not pressure, and just take it slow and when it happens it happens. Don't rush it. The worst thing you want to do is have regrets after the fact.

I never in a million years thought that I could and would be very open with my boyfriend, but I am. I think that if you can't talk openly about s*x with your boyfriend, then you aren't ready to have s*x.  

Answer 6

Well whenever you are ready really. I was a virgin until 2 months into my current relationship, and so was he. I felt like I was ready to take the step, so I did. Whenever you feel like you're ready is when you should.

Answer 7

Girl, in this day and age...

IT AIN'T A RELATIONSHIP UNTIL YOU BE HAVIN' s*x.

Or better yet, it would make more sense the other way around and be like:

How long after you start having s*x are you in a relationship?

LOL, it's a crazy world out there, but you can't deny the truth.

Answer 8

There's no set timing when you're suppose to have s*x, you just do it when you feel right about it. Make sure it's at a time you're not going to regret.

Answer 9

wait until after you guys walk down the aisle then worry about it

Answer 10

in my last relationship it was my first time with him as our 1 month anniversary present (lmao im only 13, almost 14, he just turned 14) but dont worry im over it, i think i made a huge mistake and now cant even talking to guys anymore without feeling sick to my stomach

Answer 11

just be patient, no need to rush

Answer 12

Until you marry him.

Answer 13

Usually by the third date, you go a little further than the first two.

But s*x, is something,  you only do, with the right one, at the right time. If you are unsure, especially your first time, then don't do it.

There are other things you can do sexually to please your man, if you wish to go that far.

But as far as intercourse, there is no timetable, it's all up to when you are ready for it.

Don't be coerced into doing something you aren't ready for.