How long can a man go without s*x?

Question

I am in a long-distance relationship with my fiance right now. We plan to get married next year. We saw each other last in April of this year and won't see each other again until April of next year. He is 25. Can he go without s*x this long? Or will it pull him to cheat? Can a man this young even go without s*x for a longer period of time? Doesn't it drive them to go look for it? What does a man feel like when he hasn't had it in so long? Is it different for him doing it "himself" compared to being with a woman?

Answer 1

obviously every man is different. no man 'needs' s*x. they WANT s*x of course, but it's not like they'll die if they don't have s*x within a certain time period.  some men never have s*x in their life time. there have been men who have lived to an old age and died and were still virgins.

Answer 2

Of course he "can" wait, the question is if he will and if you trust him to wait.  A man can go as long as a woman which is a looong time.

Answer 3

If your fiance truly loves and respects you then hopefully he will remain faithful.

Answer 4

Hmm, About 40 days maximum! ( That doesn't include fapping )

Answer 5

men can go without s*x, boys can't.

Answer 6

well most guys can go a while with out it and not die...lol...and if a guy is in a relationship and cant be with them he will take care of himself just fine with out cheating. guys can control themselves..some just chose not to..if he is going to cheat it wouldnt matter if you were with him every weekend...but if you love him and he loves you you have nothing to worry about...good luck..but even if he does he will still love you and want you...

Answer 7

A guy can go without s*x forever, look at all the dorks like me when in highschool never getting laid.  He needs to whank it probably once a week at least.  He will probably check out the JC Pennies catalog underwear section, just to let you know.

If you want him to always have you on his mind, send s**y photos in underwear once every couple weeks.  If you hooked him up that way, no way in h**l would he go for some other bimbo.  If you starve him from any eye-candy from you, he will probably be on the prowl in about a month.

Answer 8

Get a couple of webcams.  Webcam s*x is **almost** as good as being right there with each other.

Answer 9

I have some questions for you.

Why did you agree to this? Why do you think he wouldnt marry you so you could go with? Do you think, way down in the depths of your heart this is a good situation?

Answer 10

He Can.. He ll do it himself  till then.

Answer 11

my husband(28) is getting ready to go another year without s*x...he's committed to our marriage and he loves me not to do anything...he may look which is human nature but he's also the first one to say to his soldiers that he loves me to much to do anything...and if your guy has to take care of himself there are things out there you can buy him to help him in the situation...so yes it can be done for a year...and sometimes longer  

Answer 12

Maybe a week? Not more.

95% of men (I'm not talking about boys) aged around 23-29 will rarely go more than a week without it.

Answer 13

My husband and I were apart for 4 months last year and neither of us cheated. He was gone in the Army so we depended a lot of phone s*x and writing each other "stories." You have to get creative to keep him happy. If he truly loves you then he will be faithful. Why don't you send him a racy email or letter to spice things up for him.  

Answer 14

I m********e when I need to!  11 years of marriage and I have never considered cheating and when I have the urge and my wife doesn't I m********e!

Answer 15

any man with morals and is faithful and loyal can go with out s*x as long as need be. Why would you only see someone once a year?

..and then marry him? hmm...interesting.

Answer 16

He's going to have to knock the bottom out of something before then believe me.

Answer 17

Of course men can live without s*x.  He might not like it, but he'll live.  I really like the web-cam s*x idea from the military wife.  Gold!

Answer 18

It is a choice to cheat or not...If your fiance loves and respects you...He will wait for you...I have yet to hear a man or woman for that matter...actually die from not having s*x...

Answer 19

If he is true and loyal to you, he can go without s*x with others. I would guess that he will m********e at least once per day, but avoid other women.

Answer 20

It all depends on how much you mean to him, and how much his self respect for being true to you means to him.  Many a man has sacrificed for the woman he loves only to find out later she can't/will not/is unable to be true, and it breaks our hearts.  So before you expect him to endure the long separation what are you doing during this time?

Answer 21

if he really loves u he will wait from april to forever

Answer 22

Every man can go without s*x as long as they want to.  But that is the key-he has to want to.  My fiancee went for six years without prior to me due to being constantly deployed and the fact that he was burned pretty bad prior by his ex.  He pretty much thought women were the "devil" for quite a while. Now I can gaurantee though that he did go through quite a bit of lotion and kleenex in that time though.

Answer 23

IMO a man can only go about 1 week without

Answer 24

Any man can go without s*x, hopefully your man is loyal and wont cheat on you but you would not know if he did because you never see him. You know him the best, would he cheat? If not, dont worry and move on. Those 12 months will go by so quickly!

Answer 25

Well, men have a self-destruct mechanism that goes off if they don't have s*x at least once a month after the age of 20. If they don't have s*x they will actually explode into a shower of gore and unused s***n.

Oh, wait, never mind, that wasn't true at all! And neither is the idea that somehow men "need" s*x. It is just as hard for you to go without it as it is for him, so if you can do it, so can he. Anything anyone else tells you is as bogus as the "self-destruct" switch. :)

Answer 26

if he loves you he can wait. no women should come before and plus if he waits it will be worth it. the best s*x is when you wait for the person you want to do it with most.

Answer 27

Of course it's different but if he wants to be faithful then he will.

Answer 28

   Just  don't  think  that  way.

Answer 29

Not long I don't think any guy would wait the long. If the chance comes any guy would cheat trust me  

Answer 30

It depends on the type of person he is but i dont think a man that young can go a year without s*x

Answer 31

Well its much like a menstrual cycle, a man must have s*x at least oen complete week (ie 7 days) in a month, or they will essentially bleed to death.

I know gross but thats the truth, its something they don't teach you unless you go to med school