How long does it take for a person to only speak what is positive and constructive?

Question

Thanks in advance for answering. Peace, Love and Blessings!

Answer 1

Some have sobriety in speech and decorum in conduct, others are irrational and excitable. Breeding starts from infancy and is partially inherited from ones forebears.

Considered speech is the sign of a wise person, whereas tormented souls such as I will talk at length of not very much on a dubious subject saying very little in comparison to volume of words.

It is madness to waffle or babble. Sense to speak with courtesy and sensitive consideration.

Answer 2

It is not a question of time,it is a question of attitude.

Answer 3

A man or woman who has led his entire life by and for the will of God and seeks out the mystery of the Trinity, harbors no illusion, understands faith, and thanksgiving will usually be called righteous by his peers.  This man speaks seldom.  When recognized as a man with deep wisdom, he will be sought out for the truth, positive or negative (or neutral) in this life.  

Answer 4

People first must learn to _think_ in positive and constructive modes.  Quite a task,  

I do gratitude lists.  That is a start.

I also ask myself, "what can I do about a problem right now?"  if there is nothing to be done right then, then it is not a problem NOW.  

Answer 5

Usually longer than it takes to lie.

Answer 6

Depends on how well-acquainted you are with the question asked or the topic in discussion. So the response can be immediate. Some persons not familiar may try to bluff their way through, take a long time to explain and the listeners may still remain unconvinced. Better to admit non-familiarity and then shut up. The world is short of good speakers and leaders who are positive, sincere or constructive!  Peace <3  ;-))

Answer 7

Some are born that way, some take a few days, weeks, moths, years... and for some, .. many births, maybe...

Answer 8

It takes a moment to speak what is constructive and positive, if one is living in The Now. Living every moment brings a person to immediate perceived response, which is always a charged, positive and constructive.

It is the Now lived which is The Truth.

Answer 9

I think what it really depends on is how bad one wants a change in their life.  So many people speak only in negative terms on the inside and out.  So, just because they change the dialog for one day does not mean it truly influences the person to stay that way.  I think one knows that they have made it to the positive side when they hear, see, and catch other people's negativity in the blink of an eye. It sticks out like a sore thumb, and you only want to offer your advice of changing your mind and perspective as it can truly change your life.

Thanks for reading!