A guy I have feelings for recently moved out of his home when he found out his girlfriend cheated on him, and ended the relationship.
Recently, I posted a new profile photo on facebook and he sent me a message out of the blue that said "you're prettier than ever." I'm thinking of asking him if he'd like to get together for lunch and catch up (it has been years since we've seen each other).
So my questions are: Do men need a lot of time to heal from a break-up or are they open to new possibilities even while still grieving the ended relationship? And secondly, what's a guy's motivation for telling a girl she looks "prettier than ever."
Please no pigeon holing/generalizations! There's more than one possibility, and I'm interested in your take on this. Thanks so much.
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