How long does it take time to recover from love ?

Question

My ex boyfriend broke up with me , it seems . Three months already , He gave me lots of memories . He brought happiness into my life before . He is just so amazing to me . I wonder how long does it take time to heal my broken heart . Whenever I think of him , I just miss him so much! and when I saw , he got a new girl and my heart started to bleed again .

He ******* move on already , he ask me not to wait him perhaps there's still lots of good guys . I just want to recover from this love and his the one who took my virginity , I am so hurt ! when his leaving and he dont ever turn to look me an eye .

I JUST WANNA RECOVER ! anyone ? help ? Im a christian which trust God lots . Im praying everyday and night , tears while praying to god , just to heal the broken heart of mine .

but why does it still doesnt heals yet . I dont wanna get stuck anymore .

Answer 1

if he has moved on and even got a girlfriend already that means he never loved u even half earnestly and seriously as much as u did, that means, he doesnt deserve your love, neither does he deserve to hurt you anymore..as far as the question of healing is concerned, there is no set time..just depends on how well you can distract urself, be positive and focus on other things in life..just make sure u dont get hurt again!!

Answer 2

It heals when you decide it's time. It starts when you start looking forward instead of to the past.

Answer 3

Love isn't what you recover from..heartache is.

Eventually, you will be fine. Life goes on and so shall you. The plan in life is to learn from your interactions with people.  Your ex has taught you lessons about life.  Things you can learn from and apply to a new relationship.

Answer 4

anytime

Answer 5

I got my heart broken BADLY about three years ago... althoguh I'm better off and I'm over it and its still is a big part of me, the breakup seems to be more significance than the actual relationship.

I've never really healed, but rather it's something I've learned in life and will carry with me....

I'm much happier now, and after that relationship I know what I want, and how to treat my loved ones.

Answer 6

gosh..i really really feel your pain..im so sorry for you. and he is a jerk!!

if i were you, i would go out and meet new friends..just to make me distracted from thinking about him. do stuffs that i like with my friends, like a sleepover or outing or something. and i will find someone to talk to..and shoulder to cry on..coz i feel better when i cried..

and hey, if you need someone to talk to, email me..  

Answer 7

Well okay lets see what i can say that might help ya. All that I can say is that realize that if it was meant to be you would still be together. Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want you anymore? He's moved on and as much as it hurts you have to realize that it happened and you can't change it. Only he can change his mind about how he feels. There are plenty of guys out there so never give up on love and as long as it may take to find the right guy it will be worth the wait. I know how it feels to just leave someone and they not ever look you in the eye again it hurts but you have to overcome it. God will take care of your broken heart if you give him time and quit worrying about what you can't fix. Prayer always works if its for the right reasons and things. It takes time. I know three months seems like a long time right? i know. I've been single for almost 2 years now thats a long time. But I have learned that its worth every minute because i know one day i will find the right guy. Your heart hasn't healed because you don't want it too. You want it to but then again you don't because you just want him back you want everything to go back the way it was. I understand the feeling but it happened for a reason. Everything does. I hope this helps and just keep your faith that God is going to send you someone thats even better than he was and loves you more too.  

Answer 8

I understand what your going through. I'm actually going through the same exact thing. Its been three years full of heart ache for me. Like living on an emotional roller coaster. we would break up then get back together. What I realized this time was, the time that we were apart

I was actually happier, then when we were together. Remember you are what's most important. Guys will come and go. Do what makes you happy. Little things, like i used to love Antonio Banderes in desperado. So i watched the movie ate popcorn and so on. Also i focus on how to improve. How to become a better person. How to become a better friend. How to Improve financially. Life is hard enough. Don't spend your time focusing on someone who is most likely not thinking about you. Remember your beautiful and there are plenty  guys that will love you. **good luck** chicka!

Answer 9

when you decide to let yourself move on..as a general rule though i've found it takes about half the amount of time you were dating to lose the feelings.  Also, don't force yourself to feel anything, just deal with what you are going through now, let yourself grieve or be angry or crazy or whatever you have to do (within reason).