How long does the pressure of having s*x the first time last?

Question

My boyfriend and I were on the verge of having a "good time", but I couldn't take him. It hurt so bad, and I started to panic and it made everything worst. We tried to, but the more he pushed in the more I told him to just forget about it. How long does it take to actually feel good. It was also the first time him and I did anything remotely like that in our relationship.

Answer 1

still a virgin no idea!

Answer 2

well he has to get you (not to be perverted) but wet. I was 18 when I lost my virginity to my ex and his was rather large and it hurt so bad because We didn't do much foreplay. So foreplay is the answer. try that for 20 to 30 minutes and it will be so much better. but beware once you start having s*x on a regular basis your boyfriend will try to put a stop to the foreplay. lol

Answer 3

Well, it hurt me like h**l for the first... 4 or 5 times, of course everyone is different, so i can`t tell you for sure. just tell him to go slow and eventually you won`t have any problems.

good luck and safe s*x !

Answer 4

It might help if you swap positions. When I lost my virginity to my husband (a few months before we were married, actually), he started out in missionary and I couldn't take him, so I suggested me getting on top to control how he went in. Once we got into that position, it went a lot smoother and the pain only lasted about 15 seconds.  

Answer 5

Same thing happened to me. My boyfriend said the first few times will be uncomfortable by everytime gets less uncomfortable. probably 3-6 times.