How long should I wait for him to leave this other woman?

Question

I have been with this man for 1 and a half years he has a girlfriend we date like regular people but he says no is not the write time to leave her i and getting older now and I want to settle down so should I move on or should I wait it out I love him and he tells me he loves me to I want it to be just us in this relationship but I don't km ow when this will happen.

Answer 1

You have already waited too long.  He's double dipping and will continue doing so for as long as you will allow it.

Answer 2

dump him NOW!!!!! this relationship is going no where!!!!

Answer 3

Newsflash!! You are being used for s3x!!!

Answer 4

if he was going to leave this other woman because of the so called love he has for you, he would have done it already.  Once a cheater always a cheater----remember that.  How do you know one day he wouldnt cheat on you?  well i guess he kind of already is with his girlfriend. He has his cake and he's eating it too.  MOVE ON!!

Answer 5

Wait forever.

Answer 6

From my own experience, he will never break up with her. You are looking for a commitment that he just won't give. Be smart and show him you won't tolerate it any longer. Give him as much time as he wants with the other woman, and give yourself a break by getting away from him.  

Answer 7

let me tell u somthing!!! it will never be just u and him...ur wasting ur time...y do u think he wont leave that other woman because he really loves her! ur just his peice on the side...how long should u wait? U should have never freakin started!!!!!  i know things happen but bump dat! u knew what u were getting involved in...and if he does leave that girl then he will just find sombody else cuz to him ur just an EXTRA! u will never be the starring role! get ur own man....and stop Messing with her man!  oh and by the way chances are that he has others than u!  ur being a fool wasting ur life on a man dat aint urs!

Answer 8

I wouldnt try and make it long term with him. really does sound like hes just saying i love you to keep you hooked. youd be suprised what guys will say to keep more than one woman around. keep it a friendship/dating feel and look elsewhere for someone to settle with. if he was serious about you he would have left her in a month maybe 2 max.