I have been with my girlfriend for a year now, we both have grown so close and are different and our differences compliment eachother. Alot of her friends have been either getting married or engaged. Some have done so just after 1 year of being together. To me one year is not enough time, but I still feel so strongly that she is the one for me. My current job in the millitary requires alot of my time ie being away on training trips and or deployments. I am currently in Iraq and return soon, I deploy every year and 1/2. I would like to be married durring my second deployment so I can take care of her more (financially and insurance wise) and because of the schedule it makes it extreamly hard to figure out when is right. I dont want to rush things like one of her friends whos if they get married I fear will end in disaster. I want to not feel pressured either, mainly by my own feelings. I love this girl and can not see myself with out her in my life. How long is not rushing into a marriage and or should I even worry about the time frame if it feels so right? Thank you for your opinions.
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