How long will it take to get pregnant if .?

Question

i dont chart my ovulation and just doing it all natural with no stress and all that. i just feel like planning your pregnancy for every moment would stress my body to have trouble conceiving like all these women that get so depressed any advice ? this is baby # 2 the first was very unexpected

Answer 1

hi, my first baby was unplanned because i was having ALOT of conceiving problems. now iam carrying number 2 and this one was planned. i just worked out when i was ovulating and how long my cycle was online and i knew when to have s*x and i did before i ovulated on the 4th and i found out last week iam now carrying number 2. tracking and planning your pregnancy's are stressful for some but not for others and there is nothing wrong with doing it, if thats what you want to do.so if you know when you are fertile and when you ovulate than you can have s*x before hand which is better for a baby to be conceived and it wont take very long,depending on your body. good luck

Answer 2

You are exactly right, I have been ttc for six months now, I have been charting and using the opk's to no avail. I just went to my ob and she said that obsessing over it and stressing out can s***w up the whole process by messing up our hormones, so she told us to just relax and start baby dancing every other day from the time my period stops until the next one starts or I get the BFP. My period has just ended today and I already feel much more relaxed about ttc this month. It started to take away from our romance by it becoming to mechanical. We are going to have fun with it this month around and if it's our time, it will happen:).