How many GIRLS have told their crush how they felt?

Question

Is doing that a good thing, or is it better to wait for the guy to confess his feelings first?

Answer 1

i've done it before. two times. One guy, i told him and he said he didn't feel the same way. a week later, he changed his mind and we went out. i think he was desperate, but maybe i was too. >.< im not very proud of that one. The second occasion, i told him, and he told me he liked some other chick. Nothing ever happened. He's one of my best friends now. Anyways, i'll never tell a guy now. Unless i KNOW he likes me. and it takes a lot for me to accpet that. But it could be different for you. It's just for e, it doesnt work out,.

Answer 2

For a long time in my life, I would never admit to a guy that I had feelings for him until he said something first.

But then at one point, after liking a guy for over half a year and never having the courage to tell him (up until the point where we went off to different schools), I realized I'd wasted so much time on him. I'd spent six months liking him but being afraid. If I'd simply told him how I felt, I'd have two options.

The first (and unpreferred but inevitable for every girl at some point in her life)  is that he wouldn't have the same feelings for me. Bummer, but at least you know to move on and quit wasting your time.

Or the second, the feelings are mutual. Then you date, and stop wasting time wondering.

So after this epiphany, I started telling guys when I liked them.

You can tell a guy this in many ways.

Typically, it's hard for a girl to walk up to their crush and blurt out "I like you".

So don't.

Ease into it. Make him aware of your feelings. This is easily done by flirting. When talking to him, lightly touch his arm. Use your eyes to send goofy or flirtatious messages from across the room. Make a point of smiling at him every time he looks at you.

If when he picks up on the flirting, he begins to flirt back, he's interested.

If he doesn't, he's not. You can play it off as harmless flirting, not feelings for him.

:)

Answer 3

I've only confessed after they told me that they like me too....just because I'm an insecure coward.  XP