How many s*x Partners is "Normal"

Question

For a 25 year old person? My husband has been with 9 other people. They were all relationships some long some short over about 8 years. Never had a one night stand.

Is that normal? High? Low?

I myself was in a 5 year relationship from 17-22 so I think I have a different view of "normal" since I really didn't date many people

Answer 1

In a perfect world one. In the real world don't count and don't tell your partner! I don't know why people think it's cool to do that. It just puts c**p in their head.

Answer 2

Nine in eight years isnt that many, thats almost just once a year..Not bad not bad

Answer 3

Your husband is a man-w***e and a ****.

Answer 4

i really think that for a young guy, 9 people is totally acceptable

Answer 5

9 is about average, but only having one s*x partner is fine too. The only number that is abnormal is never having s*x with anyone, like me. I'm a 25 year old virgin. I'm the weird.  

Answer 6

Thats neither a high, nor a low number. Just take into account that he was in relationships with all of those girls. You're husband sounds like a good hearted-guy, and at the end of the day it doesn't really matter how many people you've been with, especially since he's made a commitment to spend the rest of his life with you.

Hope this helps,

J.O

Answer 7

I've had alot of s*x partners(more than 600),so what is normal.

Answer 8

Thats is normal. Some people have more than that.  

Answer 9

First of all , who cares, are you a sexologist writing a book like Dr.Kinsey? Secondly, there is no normal! It is normal to be abnormal!

Thirdly, some say that men take the number of sexual relationships they have had and add 4 for thier ego, to sound like real he men, you know , which if true would put your husband at 5. They say woman take away 4 to sound pure and innocent which if true would put you at 5, holy moley you guys are the same you both had 5!!!!

More importantly, do you love each other?

Are you're libidos about the same, you both want s*x about the same amount of the time?

Are you sexually compatiable?

Does he want you to do things you don't want to do?

Do you want him to do things he has no clue about?

Read Dr. Kinsey's books and you will be surprised at what people do, how ofter they do it, and the pleasure it brings them.

s*x is for pleasure, for both of you, it also builds bonds, and strengthens the relationship if you are both happy with your s*x life.

That is what is important, get that normal c**p out of your head.

Good luck, I hope you two have years of happiness and great s*x ahead of you.

Answer 10

well 9 is not a high number at all