This is my dilemma:
Regarding my last question:
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After a long talk with my fiance - said that I wanted to go on the pill so that I don't get my periods on my wedding day.
He never supported the idea, does not like the pill. Last night after a long talk. He said that if I want to go on the pill that is my decision, but he would have to abstain from sleeping with me after the wedding until I get my periods on the honeymoon. We did agree to use condoms before I decided to go on the pill. He thinks that it is humiliating to use a condom. He had told someone before he met me that when he gets married he is going to get his wife pregnant on the first night. I wasn't aware of this until a month ago.
He understood that I am not ready to fall pregnant right away. We have only known eachother for a year and getting married in 2 months. I do want to spend time with my fiance, before having such a huge and lifetime responsibility to raise children.
We are both virgins. Does it sound silly that he does not want to consummate the marriage until I am off the pill. He has been told that the PILL aborts a fertilised egg - and the church views things from conception - not from foetal stage. I have told him many times that the pill stops you from ovulating - thus no egg to fertilise. As the pill also thins the lining of the uterus.
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