How many of u gone tru this??

Question

u clean they mess.... u clean they mess.. and u clean and clean again.....

i feel like exploding of anger... but i am the mother so it is my duty to clean!!! how to discipline this kinda kids.. age 14,12 and 7

Answer 1

say that they can not have tv or take away something that they each love, and it can be something different for every child! For mine it was electronics. I also tryed making them do it or weekly jobs so that they all do something, so that they can not have a friend over, until they do the dishes! GOOD  LUCK with training them!

Answer 2

Dear lady, Your job as a mother is to enforce the 'u-mess-it-u-clean-it' etc.  At those ages, I don't why you haven't already gotten them into that. My daughter is learning this at 2 almost three years. But you have to make it happen. good luck!!

Answer 3

They go nowhere and do nothing until they clean their mess!!

Answer 4

well u could do what my mom did....if they leave toys around the house tell them to pick it up or its going in the trash if they still dont pick it up throw it in the trash!!! dirty dishes get thrown in their room and clothes&shoes laying around the house get thrown in the yard!!!   it worked with me when i was a troubling pre-teen!!!

Answer 5

You make them clean it themselves.  Children need chores to learn responsibility and appreciation for what they have as well as organization.

Answer 6

they are all old enough now to clean for themselves. It will teach them responsibility.

Answer 7

If laying down the law doesn't work, let the dirtiness pile up.

My family is like that sometimes (I'm the oldest of three children), and when it gets messy enough, it's starts to bother at least one of us kids so we start to nag each other until it's clean.

Answer 8

If you just stop cleaning, they will notice. so Stop cleaning, the mess will bother them, and they will learn to clean it eventualy. It worked for me. Good luck!