How many of you pretend on the outside that everything is fine a dandy in ur life?

Question

when its NOT!!

like giving out fake smiles and getting into forced conversations? when there's a volcano waiting to erupt inside you??

Answer 1

Life is full with white lies and liesand honesty.Your mind body and soul reacts to the situation you are in irrespective of your willinliness to be honest at all times to face.Success depend on your self control but pretention is inevitable.

Answer 2

I do, . Coz I believe that all my miseries & pain should be only expressed infront of Allah alone who created us , who knows our need & can solve them that is why I never let others feel wat goes on with me coz every human is just as Muhtaj ( needy) as me.

Answer 3

alll the d**n time..

Answer 4

I do...............becoz i dont want any one  else to suffer 4 me, or sm1 get bored of my problem and leave my company. I jus try to pretend as much possible

Answer 5

Yes!

~~Ok u need to calm down, say some prayer..

Answer 6

I do this as well.

I may not want to talk about the situation - hence the fake smile. Or when someone asks how I am I give the the pat answer "Fine, how are you?"

I believe the majority of people also do this, and for as many different reasons as there are people.

Answer 7

Oh myyy, don't burn your kebabs.

I can't pull that off. If something is wrong with me you can see it all over my face.

But it is a waste of time. Let it go.

peace

Answer 8

My life is fine and dandy!

OK not really lol

Answer 9

I do. I try not to talk about my problems.

Answer 10

My life is perfect as I am a follower of a perfect religion.

Answer 11

normally I cannot cannot do it, or don't want to cuz I feel dishonest if I  .. and so its always visible all over me.. my voice, my face, my actions...

but sometimes some people around you don't understand you, and you try, and they still don't understand you, and they dismiss their mistakes as if it was nothing, ... then you just have to stop from saying what would cause fitnah, and because you know it doesn't go anywhere farther than that.  And they don't notice, or just dismisses the obvious signs of dislike/discomfort in the voice, face and actions, and likes to think of the person's character as such, instead of thinking it's a reaction.

Answer 12

lool, i have to totally agree with what 2paCreed said. :)

Answer 13

only online. it's sort of like a get away.

where u feel all good and every things perfect. turn ur face from this screen, and there it goes again.

online's like a drug, i need to cut down.

Answer 14

I do !

And, I suppose, most of us do at various instances in life...  

Answer 15

I dont smile fakely.. i just be normal. dont be fake its not nice.. ;)