How many things went wrong on you wedding day??

Question

I can name all the negative things?? They threw away my bouqet and there was so much more.

Answer 1

The horse carriage was supposed to bring me along with the ring bearer and flower girl to the ceremony.  However, they called 2 hours before the ceremony to say that their truck broke and they would not be able to make it.  Fortunately, my husband and I are quick thinkers and we went with the convertible mustang that we had rented for the week.

We were not that caught up on every little thing going as planned, so we were able to adjust quickly.  Don't worry too much about your bouquet, what would you have done with it?  I have mine and it's dried but I'm trying to figure out what to do with it...

Answer 2

Nothing at all. It was the most wonderful day ever. I think one of the reasons our day was so great was that I didn't try to plan everything out to the last detail. We had a general idea of how we wanted our day to go, and let it all happen naturally. There was no rehearsal. I didn't order any specific flowers (white bouquet of whatever). It was relaxed.

I do agree with the above poster who said stop concentrating on what went wrong, and think about what went right! You finished your wedding day married to your favorite person on this earth! Everything else was just fluff! You accomplished what you set out to do that day, didn't you? Be happy for that.

Answer 3

My father took to many prescription sleeping pills and didn't show up. But I didn't let that bother me the day of. I enjoyed my day no matter what...so, if anything else went wrong I certainly didn't allow myself to notice (or just plain didn't notice). I had the perfect day...all that little stuff didn't matter. I was there with my husband and people who loved us. Couldn't have asked for anything more...I am so thankful that I didn't let what happen with my father ruin my day.  

Answer 4

I am sure I have already told you this but I am still upset about all the things that went wrong to. I got married just a few weeks before you! Well where to start......My MIL, FIL and SIL (who was in the wedding) Started drinking at 1pm and were drunk before the wedding started. So they were serouisly stumbing as they walk down the isle. My MIL and SIL were an hour late for pictures because they had to take a nap from drinking to much. So we ran an hour late for everything and that is how I missed pictures.

Then his second cousin brought her four kids, Dressed in short dresses and high slits and plunging necklines (ages 11-16), and her youngest in a flame shirt with skulls (age 9). She made a scene because her kids didnt have place cards. She was told several times they were not welcomed due to limited space she said she under stood and wouldnt bring them. They actually told her she had two choices to be quite or they call the police if she didnt stop yelling about not having place cards.

Then after the ceremony my MIL refused to take pictures (she needed to sit down and said she was cold) When it was all due to beaing drunk. Then as we went to take our first dance after dinner my SIL (the pain in the rear) Told me I could wait to dance we were going to take pictures right now! I was fumming and told her to get out of my face and go find her brother. I had enough. Then we ended up taking pictures where they want to (in front of the bathroom, in the hall way) Stuiped people. Then we finally get to enjoy our selfs when my SIL decided to tell me our wedding was nice but it didnt come close to beaing as elegant as hers. My FIL was rude to several people and I heard from several people my SIL was talking trash all night.

After all that here is the kicker.......Our DJ wasnt our DJ he was fill our DJ got food posining (he was fine though, he checked with us several times to make sure he had the right songs and stuff). Dinner ran late due to the other wedding going on which they were runing late. The cake was wrong, and I am missing pictures of the ring bear and flower girl, me and each girl, and I had two photographers (one had no idea what he was doing). How ever I never noticed any of it till after every thing was over and I was looking at my pictures. None of that bothered me more then my in-laws acting like trash. Who are normally not that bad expect the SIL is horrible but that is a hole other story.  

Answer 5

I agree, don't worry about it. I was at a wedding on the weekend and they had the most horrible photographer ever - she was walking all over the church taking pictures during the wedding and she even stopped and had them pose twice during the wedding - once right after signing the license and once during the recessional. They never stopped smiling despite this.

Answer 6

My wedding is Saturday and even if things do go wrong, I get to marry my best friend and I will focus on that so nothing else matters.

Answer 7

The caterers did a somewhat poor job- showing up 15 minutes late, not having all the food warm even though we were planning on serving it all immediately, messing up one of the orders.

Also, the young flower girl tried to climb up a big giant wooden podium that looked really heavy, and it fell back on top of her.  Miraculously, it landed in such a way that the only thing it did was stub one of her toes.  But it could have been much worse, and it really scared everybody for a moment before we saw she was okay.

Otherwise, everything went really well.

Answer 8

So many things went wrong at our Wedding. During the ceremony the priest's microphone did not work. At the reception the power went out, two girl's were fighting for the bouquet and when my husband was doing the garter toss, he fell off the chair.

Unfortunately we always remember the things that went wrong.

Think about all of the things that went right and I'm sure those outnumber the negative things.

Answer 9

I'm not married, but I was in my best friend's wedding on Saturday. While there were things that went wrong, overall it was a beautiful event. I think you should stop concentrating on the things that were bad and focus on everything that you liked about your wedding. Every wedding has issues. Nothing ever goes as planned. But if you remember the things that DID go as planned you'll be able to forever look back at your wedding and smile at the happy memories.

Why would you want to remember the negative aspects, anyway? Forget about it!