How many times do kids and adults have to be told, if you are going to have s*x, use protection? Some nasty?

Question

stuff is out there: HIV, Aids, syphilis, gonorrhea, herpes, and others. The smartest and coolest things you can do is wait until you are with someone that you want to spend your life with and know that they feel the same. You can't imagine how much better you would feel if you could go into a marriage as a virgin. That may sound silly to many people, but I wish I had done that. It's one of my regrets - one of many. AND, the world doesn't need anymore unwanted babies..............

Answer 1

Yeah and look at how well teaching abstinence has worked out....

Answer 2

I totally understand you! No I'm not married and yes i am still a Virgin. But it is like people well teens mostly are so  careless now a days. I am a teen at that. I mean they base s*x on life. If you not doing it you're a lame. If you do it too much you are a hoe. It's like why just not do it. I mean so many people are pregnant and they take it as a joke and still go back to their nasty ways. It is like so sad, I feel horrible inside even if I haven't did it. It is like they no longer respect for a bodies, we treat them like trophies. A prize to show off. They don't realize that your virginity is a prized possession. It's just a screwed up world. So many bad choices so little time! I mean I see why people look down on us. But luckily there are some even if it is few people that are trying to make a difference for the better in this world.

Answer 3

thats so true

Answer 4

I 100% disagree with I am Mclovin

Maybe the majority of teens don't wait until marriage; however, some can and some can at least wait until after high school.  Not everyone is having s*x.  Sorry if that is hard for you to understand.  You seem very ignorant of this entire topic (teen s*x).

And funny that you would want to stop using Y!A because of preachy people.  In my case, I can't stand coming on here to constantly read about 13,14,15 year old girls who don't know if they are pregnant or not, or asking how to dress s**y for a boy they like.

And to answer the question-  It is really annoying to have to tell people over and over again that no matter what, having s*x has some ugly consequences that are well known to the majority; however it is up to you whether to answer those questions or not.  Just skip it.  Some times it is better to leave people to sit in their own ignorance.

Answer 5

Yeah, but most people don't think like that do they? Or even if they do, they might think that's the ONE, and then it turns out it wasn't. And wait until u're married, well even less people think like that and act on it.

Answer 6

Yeah ok that works.  It's not reality though dear.

Answer 7

Amen sister! I too regret not waiting. At the time I thought I would never regret it, only to be dumped by the guy a few months later. Virginity is a beautiful and wonderful gift to give to your spouse (although my husband wasn't a virgin either).... I think people take s*x waaaaay too lightly these days.

Answer 8

Y E A H !!!! Finally there is someone with a responsible & mature point of view!!! I am soooo glad to read this ... I must give you my COMPLIMENTS !!! It shocks me to "death", when I hear of these irresponsible YOUNG girls, 14,15 yrs. who become pregnant without any concern for their bodies....most of the time they don't even know their.."body-functions"!!!! Have  NO IDEA  about their "cycle" -NOR- any reconnaissance of their body !!! Not to mention the numerous deseases  which they may contract.....

One does not necessarily "have to " remain a ... virgin (even though, it's an respectable "asset")...-but: at least these young ladies should get some tpye of contraceptive in order to avoid unwanted pregnancy, that's CERTAIN !!! I fully go confirm with your view!!! Wish there were  M O R E  women out there, who think & act like you!!! More power to women with your virtues!!!

Wish you a brilliant future & a mutually rewarding relationship! Greetings from Germany...Lots of love...Annette***

Answer 9

I agree that kids are stupid about this.

The abstinence thing, however, seems a bit preachy to me.

But, yeah, too many unwanted babies.

Recently, there was a lady in Florida, that tried to throw her baby in the trash.

The sad thing is, it's not the first time this has happened.

Answer 10

it seems so simple....but bad boys can push an innocent girl into unwanted s*x and she usually suffers the consequences worse than him !!!

Answer 11

I totally agree with your point on waiting for marriage. I really wish I had done that.

I am married now by the way. But my husband wasn't my first  :(

Answer 12

I believe that one of the reasons people have unprotected s*x all the time is because.. People really don't care about themselves or other people.  I'm not talking about people being selfish.. I am  saying on some level they really don't care about themselves or what can happen.  There are so many people who just live for the moment and don't care about the effects it will have on them or others.

That is why there are so many abortions.. People have unprotected s*x in the heat of the moment.  4-6 weeks later you find out your pregnant... No problem.. I'll just go kill it!

I wish I would have stayed a virgin until the "right one" came along... You live and learn..

I wish Jesus would hurry up and come back.. I am disgusted with the world today!

Answer 13

I know what you mean. However even though i was not a virgin when i got married i can proudly say that my husband is the only one i have ever had s*x with and we have been together since we were 15 years old....Alot cannot even say that they have been with one at the age of 18. I know it is sad how many teens have babies and how people acts like they cannot catch anything from having s*x. It makes me so sick.

People have to learn the hard way cause they do not want to listen to anyone which when they do get pregnant (when they dont want too or catch something) i laugh because they should have known better.

Answer 14

No one waits until marriage anymore, why can't you people get it?!

So many religious fanatics come on here and complain about people not waiting until marriage to have s*x. Well maybe not everyone shares your view on it so don't push it. Stop preaching in the adolecent section, my god. It is getting so old I am considering not using Y!A anymore because of all the preachy people on here. Go ahead, give me as many thumbs down as you want, I personally don't give a S**t; I'm sick of it.

BTW: I completely agree with Carter's Mom. For years parents have pushed abstinance on their kids and look at where that has gotten us.

sikchick: Just to clarify this a bit, A) You don't know me so how about you stop pretending you do and B) There is a big difference between arrogance and practicality. I am being practical. Teens rarely wait until marriage to have s*x, that is a FACT. The problem is adults preaching abstinance and not protection. If your parents preached abstinance time after time you would not know how to act when the time came to have s*x if it was before marriage and you would be too afraid to ask your parents. Parents are keeping their head in the sand because they do not want to admit their children are sexual beings. Teaching abstinance doesn't work, period, and now with pregnancy and STD rates being so high we are paying the price for THAT ignorance.

Answer 15

yu kno wun thing is certain - dont regret all it is , is lessons learned.. :] soo really i understand yuh in da part we dont need any more unwanted babies dats why im pro abortion.. nd relly why wuld any wun have a baby to then give it up for adoption.. come on more tax money.. more overcrowdin.. jus think about it.. but yess deffinatly use protection..

Answer 16

I don't think you necessarily need to go into marriage as a virgin - I am not married but live with my partner of nearly ten years and our two small children - but I do agree that kids need to wise up a little.

Answer 17

very true with the stupidity of people, but let me ask you this- lets say you do wait until you are married and then you find out that your spouse has completely different sexual preferences? one will only do it in one position and the other likes to get a little rough? or what if the other person is into something REALLY freaky like urinating in their mouth or asphyxiation? what would one do in a situation like that?