How many times harder, for men to constraint their sexual desire compared to women?

Question

in terms of to control the desirously view and sexual imaginations / acts towards the opposite s*x?

I meant to discover the psychological and biological nature. No intention to prejudice the opposite s*x. I love you guys, you’re all cute. Thanks for your answers.

Answer 1

Well im not sure theres an exact ratio but it would have to be pretty high.

I don't know why it is (probably hormones) but us guys are pretty much always horny all the time.

Girls get that way (or so ive heard) but it seems much less often then guys (who have it going 24/7)

I think it must mostly be a biological thing.

Answer 2

Is their s*x drive too strong to control or do they just have less ability for self-control?  Maybe men are just weaker in the area of self-control, and the s*x drive is equal.

Answer 3

I think that within the confines of a committed, loving relationship women have every bit as strong of a s*x drive as men do. Or at least that has been my experience.

But I do agree that men are much more likely to want random s*x with women they hardly know.

Lets try to remember that only 10,000 years ago our ancestors were living in caves.

Answer 4

Not sure if this will provide any insight to your question, but it surprised the h**l out of me........

While in a long term relationship I grew tired of the constant glaring at other women from my guy. Rather than crying about it, I set out to get to the bottom of it.

I had to change my mentality: I decided that each time I encountered a male or female I found myself attracted to I would imagine myself in a sexual situation with that person.  Wow! I couldn't believe how aroused I became several times throughout the day. Needless to say my guy benefited greatly from this. Not only was he getting lucky more often, I also found that his glaring at other women was less bothersome to me.

Answer 5

On the whole I am guessing that men have more desires than women or at least can't control themselves as well.  How many women rapists have we heard about?  I have known a few women that were what you could consider nymphos.  They just couldn't resist s*x at all.   On the whole men think with other parts of their body, rather than their brain a lot more than women.

Answer 6

Little facts.

94 percent of men admitted to masturbation compared to only 70 percent of women. 75 percent of men admits to "imaginary rape" compared to only 25 % women.

Answer 7

It's a matter of the strength of the sexual urge.

For women, think of the hottest most turned moment in your life, an hour into foreplay with the man of your dreams.  That desperate desire that possesses you.

Sick and hungover, guys wake hornier than that.

Answer 8

in general it is almost impossible to supress sexual thoughts about the opposite gender. im teenager so its especiallly hard to.(i have never masturbated)

Answer 9

Uh, you're suggesting that no man can stop himslf from raping every woman he sees?

What sicko told you that?

Most men are NOT rapists.

Answer 10

I work in a profession where most of my clients are men. I can see it all over their faces, almost all of the time. On the other hand, if I find one attractive, that's almost all I'm thinking, they're attractive. A sexual thought almost never goes through my head within a conversation or passing of someone. I think for many women, there has to be much more mental stimulation before it reaches that point, where as for men it just jumps out immediately.

Answer 11

in  general...  its   EVEN!!

Answer 12

We men are biologically programmed to have stronger s*x drives. That doesn't excuse deviant behavior or harrassment  or anything...just letting you know the facts. We are also biologically programmed to be physically stronger. Try this experiment,... for a non-scientific answer to your question. Find a male aquaintance who doesn't spend a lot of time at the gym, but is in reasonably decent shape. Have him lift a barbell that weighs about 70-80 pounds over his head. Now you try it. Lot tougher for you than it was for him? That'll give you some idea of biological gender differences in both areas that I discussed.

Answer 13

WHy whould re reatin our sexual imaginations? Sexual desire is different, you have to hold back if it is unsafe or goes against your values or would jeopardise your relationship. Maybe for women there is more risk - eg if you got accidentally pregnant it's teh woman who would have the embarassment of having some see her naughty bits as she gets a termination.

EDIT: Tony, your keywords was ADMITS

Answer 14

Women have greater ability and control to ration their

'sexuality'; they usually save it for when it benefits them the most (monetarily, socially, personally).

Edit-

                  ^^

That's not true?

You answer: Most often- do women have s*x for personal pleasure/inclination and 'love'>> or mostly for some sort of gain- monetary, social, inter-personal  ?

Grumpy-

The only reason those women are nymphos (addicted to "s*x") is that thru s*x is how they obtain their gain in the categories I talked about.  Even nymphos don't have s*x just because they're horny or for personal bodily satisfaction. They want something of value to them, and the way by which they feel they best procure it is with s*x.  

  ^ U think so many women would desire making money having promiscuous s*x on (or off) film--- IF men didn't in some way reward them for it?  You think so many women just 'happen' to like s*x so much? Or have they grown to like s*x because they find there is a REWARD for it.

However- I'm certainly not saying women can't derive some pleasure from s*x in itself, I'm just saying that it's not their primary initiative.

Answer 15

The odds of a woman being raped is at 38% and another 12% severely beaten; according to the last report of this type on the news in 1998. It had gone up.

  The odds of a woman being able to "enjoy" s*x is only at 52%; 1999 report.  

         Do your math.