How many times have you contemplated divorce?

Question

is it a normal thing to get to think of divorce when you are so pissed off at your spouse?

Answer 1

Never, though we have heated arguments. I cannot bear to see my two little girls growing without their father. In fact, when my wife gets angry she sometimes loses it and threatens to walk out. She cools down in an hour or so, and always says that she never talked about divorce or separation.

Answer 2

No, I do not think it is normal. Is it normal to contemplate abandoning your kids when they upset you? Would that be normal or reasonable?



Being upset with him for the moment is one thing, being fed up of him is another. So, it's normal to think that way only if you don't really love him.  

Answer 3

Yes it's normal. Every so often my wife and I get in such a bad fight I wonder what the h**l I'm doing with her. We were talking pretty serious about it a year ago (7 years into our marriage). The important thing is to acknowledge these feeling s and discuss them with your wife. That was the mistake I made was not telling her how I was feeling.

Once we talked about how s**+tty our relationship was getting. We both started taking steps to make it better. That was a turning point in our relationship. Little things like me not volunteering to wash dishes. Her not letting me stay up all night and play video games with my friends once in a while. c**p like that builds up and once we recognized it and took steps to fix it our relationship blossomed into the wonderful, meaningful thing it is today. never been better and I look back now and realize what I fool I was for not mentioning it sooner.

Answer 4

just once...happily divorced since 1990

Answer 5

Never cause i wouldn't ever want to be without my husband and although he makes me mad sometimes im sure he gets mad at me too sometimes but we love each other and never want to be without each other.