How many times should you get turned down when TRYING to dance at a club? (how should you act?)?

Question

well ive been going to this night club and this was the 3rd time i went there (the other 2 times were great and i only got rejected like twice each time)... this time i go with my friend and since the beginning i knew it was going to be bad cuz there were barely any girls and a lot of guys... basically i got rejected like 20 times (i also asked the same girls cuz i ran out of girls to ask) and the times i dance were for lik 30 secs and then they left... THIS was the only time i was so bored i actually TALKED to girls sitting down by the bar and since i didnt know what to talk about there were lots of awkward silences... so they left.. also when i saw hot girls dancing i went "whats ur name!" and then they told me their name and i was like "ok!" lol how bad was this?

Answer 1

Go with a positive mind.

Answer 2

Sounds like a really bad night.  sorry keep trying though

Answer 3

At least you're a Top Contributor!

Naw I'm just messing at least you are out there asking girls to dance and talking to them and not being the guy in the corner.

That was just a bad night, keep doing what you're doing.

Answer 4

I mean, taking the tactic that you were so bored you "TALKED to girls sitting down" seems a bit rude.  If a girl turns you down, I would leave it at that or they'll just think you're a creepster.  Being a girl, if some guy dances on me and I don't like him, I get creeped out enough the first time.  It was just a bad night, just stay positive and you have a great time some other time you go!

Answer 5

Don't take it personal. A lot of times when I go to a club with my friends it's for a girls night out and probably we are not interested in meeting anyone in particular- just wanna hang out by ourselves.

Answer 6

for me the worst ego crusher is going to a club to score chicks.

youd go there thinking you are going to meet a girl or a few girls in able to boost your ego/selfesteem blablabla

but you end up being rejected and then youd relize what a waste of time that was... and prolly the girl you were approaching are all s***s.

never go to a club without a date or girlfriend.

Answer 7

walk away