How many were in a cheating marriage and left and now....?

Question

are happy in life? I feel hopeless and am craving for a good life with a good husbad and to have a kid in the future.

I hate seeing my siblings all settled and happy and I am the only one going through h**l in life.

I am already 39 so am not sure if it is too late to have a safe pregancy when the time will come. I am feeling hopeless as I am by myself now. How did u get thru the phase. My culture also sucks with stupidity.

Answer 1

you now what i have 6 kid and if i still a life you can do too and believe my ex husband he was the worse miserable person that i ever meet not only that anyone that it was around him feel depress. he try to control my life my friends my job and to make my history short i cheat to him not because didn't have in home what i need from him but because i want to feel happy and love in someone out body that i can get with him today if i have to do it again forgive me but i will do again  that you do things for you self because you will not have happiness or self steam if you let anyone control you go out  with you friend if not meet new people and have fun you will live once and after that you will feel sorry if you don't take care you self 1 you 2 you and 3 you don't forget that i not telling you to go and cheat to you husband I'm telling you to live you life the way you want and i donut know how bad you want a child but believed me kids is only money taking care them get old not go out and in you age maybe if better stay without why not try the one that you can wash only in some date then if you really want you own well have one but  you the only one that is going to wash it because that want to make money,,,money aja jajajaja he just don't want to was it. Good luck in you life

Answer 2

I don't know. I'd say though getting married and having a child  just cause your siblings have that isn't really a good reason to get married and try to bring a child into this world..

Answer 3

This may be of interest:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...

Answer 4

I was not married to the person who cheated on me, and I did not leave him. However, I have gone through the depths of depression and despair when I was left for another woman.  Now just three years later, I am happy.  I had issues which I had to work out, and changes which I needed to make which I did.  My self confidence was brought down to zero, and so I had to rebuild my confidence in myself. I am getting married next month to a man who loves me, and it was love at first sight with him.  There were several other changes which I made as well, which has lead to a much better place in life than I imagined.  As to your age, don't stress too much. There are a lot of women in their forties who have babies.  There is a lot of medical advances which have been made.  

One thing I have learned is that we are all responsible for our own happiness.  You need to make room in your life for the right person to come along.

Good luck.