How many women have more than one kid under the age 1?

Question

i dont need no one judging me cause im a grown married woman im 22 and been married 4 yrs i have a 4mnth old son and i was on birth controll well i ended up pregnant again and this one is due a month after my son turns 1 im scared on how he will react and on how will i do it is it hard as people make it seem or is there ways to make it easy and how will i expain to my son he has a sibling and has to be nice hes mommys boy so he will be jealous he already cries and gets mad when daddy touches my belly i dont know

Answer 1

Sibling jealousy is soooooo common. All you can do is just do your thing and take care of your kids. You will adjust and if the 1 year old sees that mommy is calm and collected then he will follow your moves. No worries sweetie!!!!! You will be fine! Take care of this new one like the older one.

Answer 2

Mine were 20 months apart, but I understand your fears.  Just keep in mind one thing...  As long as your new baby is fed, changed, and not in pain or needing attention, its okay to let him or her cry a bit while you tend to the older one.  The newborn won't remember you letting him cry for 5-10 minutes while you finish a story with the older one.  The older one, will however remember all the stories you had to stop and likely not finish because of that new baby.  Good luck.. You will be fine!  

Answer 3

i did, i was 20.

twins.

Answer 4

I have a good girlfriend who has 3 babies that are *barely* a year apart.  She and her husband weren't planning or expecting it, but, alas, they were just made to make children.

Your four month old son will adjust very quickly.  Everything will be fine!  Just remember to include him during nursing times (he can cuddle up to you), and changing times when he gets a little older - If he can grab you a diaper, cover, or pin, it will make him very proud and pleased to be such a helpful brother.  Treat him as you do now, and when the new baby is sleeping, it will never hurt to take 10 minutes to have a special bonding time, like reading a book together!