How many years did it take you to leave the guy who hurt you?

Question

Will you get married again?

Answer 1

It took me two years after several periods of us breaking up and getting back together. After the third time I felt enough was enough and ended it. I have since remarried and it is so much better being in a relationship with an adult not a man posing as one.

Answer 2

took me about 3 months to decide that i needed to file for divorce, and move on. i did remarry,and its working out great. before that i stayed with this man for 10 years,suffered emotional abuse,but the last straw was when he cheated, and went to live with her.i then decided it wasn't worth it to wait around for someone to come back who obviously never loved me anyway.thank god he cheated, i might have still been trapped with him.

Answer 3

Almost my entire life it seems, at least all the good part.  I would never marry anyone because of it.

Answer 4

9 years. Yes I would marry again someday for the right person who loves me for who I am.

Answer 5

I'm still working on leaving him.

I would like to get married again and will if I find the right man.

Answer 6

7 years. Married someone else. Loser came back after 3 yrs because I needed him to sign off on my car that he co-signed, but I have made EVERY payment... and he manipulated and took advantage in an underhanded non-verbal controlling kind of way... tried to break up the marriage... we kicked him out of our lives for good, (but not before he signed the car to me) :-)

Answer 7

It took two years.

Yes, I married again and have been married for 29 years.

Answer 8

One year.

I stayed until I was 100% sure it wasn't worth it any more.

I don't regret my decision one bit.

I wasn't married, and I don't have a desire to be, but I will be able to love again. Hopefully I will find someone much more selfless than this boy was.

Answer 9

It took about 7 years but I thought at the time I was doing the right thing by staying for the sake of the kids. Duh!!!  The kids are much happier since he left and so am I.  Yes, I still believe in marriage but this has opened my eyes and also my childrens.We are very cautious about relationships now.  

Answer 10

about two years I suppose. and yea i still believe in marriage.