How many years do you wait ..?

Question

How many years is considered too long for engagement

Answer 1

It's all a matter of preference.  I think if you get engaged its because you both want to marry one another, so you should sit down and work out how long it will take you to save up for the wedding which you both want.  Be it 5 months if your rich, lol, or 5 years if your not.  We got engaged in February08 and we are getting Married in April09.  Just because we both want to marry one another, and we wanted to get married in April, that's the month i always wanted, obviously April 08 was too soon, and April 10 was too far away for us.  So 14 months was just right for us.  Don't rush into something you may regret later. on the other hand don't leave it too long.