How much alone time do you spend with your boyfriend/girlfriend

Question

Me and my boyfriend never go on proper dates ( Cinema, out to dinner etc )

I see him everyday and he often stays round mine for the night ( He's my brothers best friend ) but he always sleeps in my brothers room and we hardly ever spend any time alone together.

He prefers crowds.

On the rare occasions when we are alone, it's only for a couple of hours and that's when we have s*x.

Usually, the nearest we get to being alone is with the company of my brother and often his girlfriend.

What do you think ?

We're more then friends because we kiss, hug etc.

By the way, i'm 15 and he's 19.

Answer 1

IT IS ILLEGAL FOR YOU AS A FIFTEEN YEAR OLD TO HAVE s*x WITH A NINETEEN YEAR OLD!!! THAT IS SICK!

Answer 2

ZERO CUZ I DON'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND

Answer 3

He's not a good boyfriend. He's just with you for the sake of not being single it sounds to me. of course i could be wrong, so you should just talk to him about at any oppurtunity.

Answer 4

um i hope you know thats illegal for him to have s*x with you cause you're a minor.

i'm pretty sure he's not taking you seriously, and you actually care for him.

Answer 5

I'm 17 and my boyfriends 19. We have hung out everyday since the day we met and a lot of times just us. We do go to his families house and hang out with friends.

Maybe he feels its best to hang around your brother since he is his best friend. I mean, Its probably awkward for him. He doesn't want to ditch his best friend and at the same point he is dating his best friends little sister. Also, are  your parents even comfortable with the idea of him sleeping in your room? I know mine wouldn't be andI know my boyfriend wouldn't be especially knowing my parents are right down the hall (even if all you guys are doing is just sleeping)!

Maybe you should just talk to him and tell him how you feel. Worst case scenerio you see his point of view! Hope this helps and things work out!

Answer 6

find a new boyfriend. and remain friends with this one. you're too young, and definitely too young to be having s*x.

Answer 7

Does HE know he's your boyfriend?  :P  Do other people know this and accept you as such?  He could be embarrassed about dating a younger female.....

I suspect he's using you for s*x and doesn't want anyone to know about it.

Answer 8

JEEZE a little TMI on the s*x part.. anyways.....

you guys have everything out in the open huh? my parents didnt even know i was sexually active with my boyfriend (hes also my bestfriend.) until i told them i was pregnant.

lolz

i spend alot of time with my boyfriend because he lives down the street!! and duh! i have his baby. so yeah we spend a bunch of time together and hes a awesome daddy. !!!!>?!??!?!

im 16 hes 17  

Answer 9

If you've found time to have s*x you've been alone too much.  15 and 19 is not good.

Answer 10

yeah your 15.

and he's embarassed to be with you.

and to be seen with you...

he only wants to be with you cause your

opening your legs to him.

have fun!!!

Answer 11

I don't even understand one thing...why u r in a hurry of having s*x at this early age?

Answer 12

Maybe you two moved a little too fast.

You've never gone out on any dates.

And from the way it sounds, if you two have never been alone together just to talk, then you two probably don't know each other as well as you think you do.

My opinion is to slow things down and find alone time with him to just talk and hang out kind of.

And go on actual dates.

He might just be using you for all you know.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now and we're almost always alone.

But most of the time we just hang out and talk.

Just slow it down with that boy.

Answer 13

I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We're lucky if we get to spend four days together a month. We're in a long distance relationship and it's too expensive to fly/drive to see each other all the time.

At the end of the month though, I'm moving to his city and going to his college too, so hopefully we'll get to spend a lot more time together.

He sounds like he's just using your for s*x, since he won't even take you out on a real date.

Answer 14

first of all buddy he is to old for you because he is 19 and u r 15 yalls relationship is illegeal he is more than 3 years older than you he could go to jail for rape asault u might want to take this question off asap

Answer 15

Hmm, well talk to him about it!

tell him that you want alone-dates.

get to know each other even better.

and it doesnt mean that there has to have s*x.

just to have fun together and talk and just be alone.

tell him you don't mind SOME group dates, but you at least want there to be some alone dates.

i hope things work out. goodluck :)

Answer 16

dude hes 2 old 4 u but i cant really say 4 me because my bf and i went 2 the same skol but now its summer so we only go out a little bit but i think a normal amount would be around mayb like 4-6 hrs.

Answer 17

im 13 i aint allowed to have a boyfriend until im 15 :(

he dont sound like a good boyfriend

Answer 18

well me and my boyfriend, spend a lot of time together 3 hours a day especially during the summer and we go one at least 2 dates a week like movies but we go on double dates but anyway and its kinda hard for us because i'm 13 and he's 16 and he works for my dad so we have to keep it secret or Else's he'll get fired because my dads a hard *** but anyway ya we spend like 2-3 hours a day, i take a couple 'long' walks a day, but we do not have s*x

Answer 19

umm hunny hes to old

think bout it this way

how would u feel if you were 19 and your freind was going out with a 15 year old

thats creepy

i am 15 and been dating my bf for 6 months

in the term time we see each other once a week and we go to one other house and just hang out

we kiss, hug and w.e and we have had s*x, but have decided that we actually want to wait till we ar both 16 actulaly cus we just feel young

we also go out to like cinema together and play tennis and in the holiday we meet up like 3 times a week

hmm i think its sweet if you like him but i dont think you should be hacing s*x, spend tiem to tlak cus that much better

x*x

Answer 20

Well, it is considered rape.

And he's probably embarrassed.  

Answer 21

I dont have one

Answer 22

I think it's bad that a 19 year old is having s*x with a 15 year old, since it's against the law and such.

Answer 23

ha ha maybe because your 15 and he is embarrassed to be dating a 15 year old.