How much legal action could I take after my "biological" dad said about me?

Question

When I was like 4, my "biological" dad started sexually harrasing me, my mom and I then moved to California for protection. Not only did he sexually harrased me, he also hit my mom. Then 8 year later after I returned, my "biological" dad was all like sorry, and that he didn't mean to. So I waited like 3 months, and told my mom that I just don't want to see him, She later called him because of what I said, just to say to cancel the meeting. You, know just to make me confortable. And then he started insulting my mother, things like, you did not raise him well, he isn't going to have a future, and stuff, even insulting me calling me pest. I know my mom is FAR from perfect, but she tries and I am glad living with her. Living with her made me a bit son and brought out a bit my feminine side, but any day, id rather be feminine than my "biological" fathers s*x toy. He still has my custudy, thought I do not see him, and rather shoot myself than live with him...

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Answer 1

call child protective services on him.............you do not need something like that in your life.................if you are atleast 11 years old ,you have a right to address the courts on your circumstance as long as your mom will be a witness for you....................if you can not afford legao council run to your local library and look up the statutes on child endangerment.

good luck to you.cc

Answer 2

sexual abuse is very deep and damaging to everyone who has experienced this..no way you should be involved with this man..nor should mom be involved with her abuser..mom can and should have taken legal steps to keep him away from the both of you..but did you actually get sexually abused by him..if so there should have been charges filed against him and restraining orders in place..

Answer 3

Your mom needs to go to court and file for full custody of you .

Afterward she needs to get a protection order ( through the courts ) and prevent him from harassing either of you .

In the mean time any time that this jack *** calls , record his calls . Play the recording for the judge . This will prove that you are in fact being harassed .

If he sends any emails , save them and print them out to show to the judge .

If it gets too bad and you or your mom are afraid that he may harm you in any way , CALL THE POLICE !

This sperm donor of yours needs to realize that he can not do this to either of you and get away with it .

Good luck .