How much time do you and your bf or gf spend together?

Question

My gf and I just got into a huge argument becasue she just spent the weekend away and now she might be going on a business trip and so now it will be another few days before I see her again. For some reason this really bugs me. Is this wrong?

Answer 1

well if she has to, she has to, it is the matter that does she choose to not spend time with you? But if she just cant for some reasons then it comes back to how much you love her and want to be with her. If you love her enough it is better to tolerate the hard times for the time of being with her. If not that much to be able to tolerate this, maybe you need another gf?! but believe me it is not that bad to be apart some days, it makes you appreciate each other much more.

Answer 2

No girl friends just F_Buddies.  I either get a call or make a call about 8.  Yes your WRONG to complain about her not being around enough complaining she's not around enough is a TOTAL TURNOFF to a girl your the needy whiny boyfriend.  .If she's not around enough start dating other women. When she get all upset you tell her its because she's not around.  If she really likes you she will being to make time..

Answer 3

Gentle whining will let her know you really care and value your time together.  All out fighting about it will make her think you are controlling/needy and insecure.  It's all about presentation, my friend.

Answer 4

we normally see each other once a day, i just moved down the street from him, bad/good idea. but yeah atleast once a day and normally sleep together at night, but he hates when i go out,... period.

Answer 5

You need to tell that girl that being apart will make your bond stronger.

Plus she kinda seems clingy.

Answer 6

Yes, you have a big problem. Honestly....if you can't handle it...dump her and find a girl who will be around all the time. I think it's a little wussy that you can't handle yourself without her. Be a man and do what you have to do....Why should your g/f not be able to do things she wants because you want her to be with you? That is needy and demanding and I don't believe you are correct at all. Just let her be, in the end this will be the best thing that happened to you.  

Answer 7

My bf and I see each other tuesdays and all weekend,  but we text all the time.  He's usually a self reported needy guy, but I think that the time we share together and the messaging all the time help.  Don't trip on her having her own life, be proud of her for achieving something... you will find ways to make it more bearable sweetie.