How much time does he need?

Question

My boyfriend of 2 years was going through his divorce. When his wife found out about us she went nuts and made him afraid to leave - because of kids. Now they are in therapy and he says he can't speak to me right now and he needs time. What does that mean?

Answer 1

Did you really think you were going to get away with this and live happily ever after? What goes around comes around, karma-ever here any of this before? I doubt he was ever going through a divorce in the first place. Just imagine how is poor wife and and kids felt, believe me if he really wanted to be with you he would be- she can't keep his kids away from him and you know that and he knows that, just as he was a coward when cheating on you,is now being a coward and lying to you, you're just in denial!

Answer 2

Sounds like he's trying to work on his marriage.  He was married to her and has kids, so his first commitment is to their family.  You don't need to get in the middle of that.  If and when his divorce is finalized, then you can have contact with him.  Trust me, you don't want to interfere.  Good luck to you.

Answer 3

It means you need to end it for him. He's a weak-kneed cheater. He's cheated on his wife, and he'll cheat on you - he really already is. He's not your "boyfriend," he's your pimp. He's pimping you for his own use.

Don't let him abuse you like that, and don't let him continue abusing his wife and kids. Tell him "IT IS OVER," and tell him now. You better ways to spend your time than spend it on this L-O-S-E-R!!!

Answer 4

He will work things out with her.. that is what therapy is for. He wouldn't have agreed to therapy if he didnt want to.

your little romping days are over.

Answer 5

It means he is trying to save his marriage.   He is using the kids line to you as an excuse as to why he is staying.  If he wanted to leave he would have left and not gone to therapy with his wife to work on the marriage.  Leave him alone to sort it out and find a man next time who is single.

Answer 6

Move on.

I don't understand why your calling him your boyfriend and he is married.

Just move on.  

Answer 7

forever.

he's not going to leave his wife, no matter what he says.

he is lying to you.

you've already gathered enough bad karma for being in a relationship with a married man for 2 years.

it's time to move on and find someone that is truly single and forget about this guy.

you already wasted 2 years.  you learned your lesson. leave him alone.

and by the way, if you two do end up together, it will never work and chances are extremely high that he will cheat on YOU.

Answer 8

He went back to his wife and you got dumped she didn't make him afraid to leave. He is staying with because he wants to.

Answer 9

it means its over between you.  He is trying to reunite with his family.  Move on.

Answer 10

It means you should respect him, his wife, and there children and leave them alone.

Get a guy who is single.

or who is 80.

and never believe the we're separeted and going through a divorce story again.

have more respect for yourself.  

Answer 11

he is never leaving his family . how about you go get nother wihout wrecking another's family . i personnally hate girls who believe in whatever c**p married men tell them cause at the end of the day guess what . he is still gonna stay with his family .