How often do I chat and for how long, to grow something out of this?

Question

I have been chatting to this guy on this online application on my phone, I did meet him in person. We chat often but its usually brief because he needs to go or me, there is good potential but I feel like its bad of me to have to go when we could have a nice conversation and develop it...but at the same time I don't want to be pushy and force things....and neglect priorities

He has initiated the conversation more times or about the same time that I have.

What Should I do?

Late teens

Answer 1

try to make time talking to him if you think he is worth your time.

then just talk to him for a hour and if the conversation gets good then stay for a little longer.

Answer 2

Just chat for a few minutes if he's not saying anything, then don't try to say much more.

Usually, I just say "hi, how r u?" "how was ur weekend?"

If they have an interesting story that they want to tell, that makes it easier. Or if you have something interesting to point out yourself, that's also good.

Sometimes it's really hard to know if you're being too pushy or making someone feel uncomfortable because they try to hide their feelings until it's too late and then they make a big deal about it.

After you feel okay talking to him on the phone app, then if you feel like it won't freak him out, say hi to him in person, and just talk about some things like maybe some really tough class that you're taking. Or if you take the same class, you can ask what they're going to do for their project and tell them your idea.