How often do we mistake people's strength with their secret desire to rule?

Question

can strength (of character, personality, etc.) really exist in the absence of a secret desire to be in control?

Answer 1

Yes, strength can exist in the absence of a secret desire to be in control. I can have strength of character and still wish to remain out of control!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOA4ixV-3...

Answer 2

I guess that's true, I sure don't want to rule, I show my strength backing up the first in command, I don't feel any real ego boost in being a ruler.

I don't mind being a leader if people choose to follow me.