How often do you fight with your friends/bff?

Question

I mean, for those of you that are basically in a healthy, good, long term friendship... how often do you get into a tiff?

Just curious.

Well, because my best friend and I haven't had a fight for a really, really long time until last week, anyway, and I'm kind of happy that we are because it feels... normal. It feels healthy.

Does that sound crazy? I don't know.. I'm definitely not an aggressive, fight-loving person, but it feels good to just have it out.

Opinions/comments? :D

Answer 1

well i dont fight with them that often but sumtimes we do hav our HUGE disagreements and than 20 mins later we're talkin lik nuthin happened. it doesnt sound crazy i guess. i guess it is kinda healthy. life got cant be roses and daffodils all the time.

Answer 2

I won't ever fight with my friends cause their friendship means so much to mean to lose over some stupid fight that didn't mean anything to begin with.

Answer 3

i rarely get in actual fights. we'll get annoyed with eachother alot. sometimes well get in stupid little arguments but then well say okay this is stupid lets just forget it.

if one of my friends gets annoying i just tell her then she goes okay sorry then were all happy again:)  ( we call it interventions when we just vent about the person and tell them nicely that they re real bugging them)  

its definitely healthy to fight/argue nobodies perfect and you can't be nice and friendly all the time.  Plus, its good to let off some steam once in a while... you guys will probably be fine:)

Answer 4

We dont count our fights or our makeups. We just count on each to be there through thick and thin. GOODfor you if you rarely have a squabble. It means you have a good lasting friendship. So i wouldnt worry about it.

Answer 5

ALL THE TIME!!

Answer 6

Good friends have to tell you the hard stuff you don't want to hear sometimes, so I think it is normal to have a few arguments. I get into it with my bff for drinking to much sometimes.He hates me when I do it, but loves me later for being a "good friend".

I think you're fine. It is normal. Not crazy. As long as you are not fighting physically. That's when you have to walk away.

Answer 7

my friends and i don't usually fight with each other that often. we haven't for a while now. we went to disneyland together for band and we all just got fed up with each other. so we eventually broke down and started crying. it was something that we needed to get out in the open. we were tired and getting frustrated with each other over little things.

but it's okay to be happy about it though. it's part of life and these things are going to happen no matter how close you are with your friends. it really just makes the friendship even stronger knowing that you guys can get through such things TOGETHER.

Answer 8

Well really not very often and believe me,  it does feel pretty good sometimes, especially if you can get some points out in the process. Me and my friends have very strong relationships, but its good to get into a little tiff every once in a while!!! (=